# General **URL:** https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/c/general/4.md?page=3 [Latest](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/latest.md) · [Categories](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/categories.md) · [Tags](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/tags.md) **Page:** 4 --- ## [Gatekeeping in the Twin Flame Community](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/gatekeeping-in-the-twin-flame-community/921)
**Author:** [@MrsClaus](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/MrsClaus)\ **Replies:** 31\ **Last updated:** [August 31, 2026, 7:50am UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/gatekeeping-in-the-twin-flame-community/921 "2026-08-31T07:50:01Z")
I don’t know if this is allowed, but… does anyone else feel like most of the twin flame community tries to gatekeep a lot? Not attacking anyone here in particular, and it feels like it doesn’t happen so much here, bu… --- ## [Signs Twin Flame is Missing You During Separation?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/signs-twin-flame-is-missing-you-during-separation/1101)
**Author:** [@HarmonyFlow](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/HarmonyFlow)\ **Replies:** 28\ **Last updated:** [August 31, 2026, 2:44am UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/signs-twin-flame-is-missing-you-during-separation/1101 "2026-08-31T02:44:06Z")
Can anyone tell me what the signs are that your twin is missing you at that moment? I saw the list of signs they’re thinking about you but just because they’re thinking of me they could be thinking about what is wrong o… --- ## [Do You Feel When Your Twin Flame is Happy?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/do-you-feel-when-your-twin-flame-is-happy/1005)
**Author:** [@meadow\_walker](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/meadow_walker)\ **Replies:** 9\ **Last updated:** [August 31, 2026, 2:41am UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/do-you-feel-when-your-twin-flame-is-happy/1005 "2026-08-31T02:41:14Z")
Does anyone else feel when their twin flame is happy? We talk about their negative emotions coming through downloads, but what about the positive ones? I don’t mean feeling your tf having sex, I mean just the simple stu… --- ## [Twin Flames Having a Baby?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/twin-flames-having-a-baby/878)
**Author:** [@Dasbopster](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/Dasbopster)\ **Replies:** 27\ **Last updated:** [August 31, 2026, 2:31am UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/twin-flames-having-a-baby/878 "2026-08-31T02:31:13Z")
I know we have a couple of people who have been in union for a lot longer, but this question goes out to anyone, whether you’ve had a child with your own twin or you know of another twin flame couple… I don’t really kno… --- ## [Do twin flames actually end up together in this lifetime?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/do-twin-flames-actually-end-up-together-in-this-lifetime/519)
**Author:** [@BlissfulMoment](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/BlissfulMoment)\ **Replies:** 27\ **Last updated:** [August 31, 2026, 2:17am UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/do-twin-flames-actually-end-up-together-in-this-lifetime/519 "2026-08-31T02:17:06Z")
Is there any guarantee of union? Can twin flames just… fail to work out? Is there a point where you know reunion will happen, or does the uncertainty continue? Sometimes I wonder if all this inner work guarantees anyth… --- ## [What The REAL Twin Flame Journey Is](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/what-the-real-twin-flame-journey-is/523)
**Author:** [@Cassady](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/Cassady)\ **Replies:** 12\ **Last updated:** [August 31, 2026, 2:16am UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/what-the-real-twin-flame-journey-is/523 "2026-08-31T02:16:49Z")
I think that most people here already know what twin flames are and what the journey is really about. I really liked this thread where we got into different beliefs and opinions a bit. I think for the sake of anyone who … --- ## [What if Your Twin Flame is Dating Someone Else?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/what-if-your-twin-flame-is-dating-someone-else/1244)
**Author:** [@DancingSoul](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/DancingSoul)\ **Replies:** 32\ **Last updated:** [August 27, 2026, 12:05am UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/what-if-your-twin-flame-is-dating-someone-else/1244 "2026-08-27T00:05:22Z")
My twin flame is with someone else. Living together and everything. I know I know all the logic of karmics and this is probably part of their journey and without them we couldn’t reach union but it hurts. It hurts so mu… --- ## [Setting Energetic Boundaries Without Diminishing the Connection?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/setting-energetic-boundaries-without-diminishing-the-connection/1827)
**Author:** [@Ammonite](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/Ammonite)\ **Replies:** 7\ **Last updated:** [August 24, 2026, 4:20am UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/setting-energetic-boundaries-without-diminishing-the-connection/1827 "2026-08-24T04:20:00Z")
Longish post ahead, but I’d very much welcome advice if anyone has it. I’m in a strange phase of my TF journey, and have been thinking about doing a cord-cutting or some other energy reclaiming ritual. There’s a thread h… --- ## [What Does Twin Flame Energy Feel Like?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/what-does-twin-flame-energy-feel-like/1719)
**Author:** [@The-Lamb](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/The-Lamb)\ **Replies:** 30\ **Last updated:** [August 22, 2026, 8:25pm UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/what-does-twin-flame-energy-feel-like/1719 "2026-08-22T20:25:00Z")
I think we’ve all used the phrase “twin flame energy” at least once :laughing: … but how do you explain that energy? I’m still trying to put words to what it feels like for me, day to day. I know it’s there and I know i… --- ## [Does Your Twin Flame Awaken You?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/does-your-twin-flame-awaken-you/1748)
**Author:** [@energy\_healer](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/energy_healer)\ **Replies:** 19\ **Last updated:** [August 20, 2026, 9:37pm UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/does-your-twin-flame-awaken-you/1748 "2026-08-20T21:37:32Z")
I’ve been thinking my twin flame was just meant to wake me up. I felt like I was never really a spiritual person and just went from distraction to distraction, but our first meeting snapped me out of it. Opened my eyes t… --- ## [Talking to ChatGPT About Twin Flames?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/talking-to-chatgpt-about-twin-flames/1010)
**Author:** [@honey\_light](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/honey_light)\ **Replies:** 32\ **Last updated:** [August 19, 2026, 5:11am UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/talking-to-chatgpt-about-twin-flames/1010 "2026-08-19T05:11:58Z")
Seen a few people post lately about using AI to figure out their connections, but talking to ChatGPT about twin flames is… risky. It is a great tool for looking things up, but just remember that it sounds human, but it h… --- ## [Twin Flame Arousal During Separation?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/twin-flame-arousal-during-separation/348)
**Author:** [@chakra\_balance](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/chakra_balance)\ **Replies:** 34\ **Last updated:** [August 19, 2026, 5:10am UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/twin-flame-arousal-during-separation/348 "2026-08-19T05:10:52Z")
Does anyone else get hit with random waves of intense arousal during separation and just KNOW it’s coming from your twin? Some nights I look at the clock and see it’s getting close to 11:11 and I almost know when it’s g… --- ## [First Touch With Your Twin Flame?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/first-touch-with-your-twin-flame/1717)
**Author:** [@DancingLight](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/DancingLight)\ **Replies:** 28\ **Last updated:** [August 19, 2026, 5:10am UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/first-touch-with-your-twin-flame/1717 "2026-08-19T05:10:45Z")
Does everyone remember the first time they touched their twin flame? Every cell in my body woke up, and then this strange calm washed over me. Felt like I’d been searching for something my whole life without realizing i… --- ## [Eye Lock With Your Twin Flame?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/eye-lock-with-your-twin-flame/643)
**Author:** [@crystal-therapy](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/crystal-therapy)\ **Replies:** 51\ **Last updated:** [August 19, 2026, 5:10am UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/eye-lock-with-your-twin-flame/643 "2026-08-19T05:10:29Z")
Has anyone else had that “eye lock” with their twin flame? I’ve seen people kind of mention it in passing, but I wonder what it means or why it really happens. When we first met, we locked eyes, and I remember having th… --- ## [Has anyone asked their TF if they feel it too?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/has-anyone-asked-their-tf-if-they-feel-it-too/448)
**Author:** [@chakra\_goddess](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/chakra_goddess)\ **Replies:** 59\ **Last updated:** [August 17, 2026, 10:04pm UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/has-anyone-asked-their-tf-if-they-feel-it-too/448 "2026-08-17T22:04:20Z")
For those who’ve asked their TF about the symptoms (the obsessive thoughts, dreams, telepathy and synchronicities etc…), did they admit to experiencing anything similar? I keep wondering if they’re going through the sam… --- ## [Can Twin Flames Stay Just Friends?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/can-twin-flames-stay-just-friends/543)
**Author:** [@DreamWeaver](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/DreamWeaver)\ **Replies:** 38\ **Last updated:** [August 17, 2026, 3:58am UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/can-twin-flames-stay-just-friends/543 "2026-08-17T03:58:50Z")
We said we’d be friends. I agreed to it. Whatever. Every time we hang out, I feel like I’m suffocating. They text me normal stuff, and I have to act normal back when really I want to scream. They’ve seen me at my worst. … --- ## [Can the Runner Become the Chaser?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/can-the-runner-become-the-chaser/867)
**Author:** [@meadow\_walker](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/meadow_walker)\ **Replies:** 35\ **Last updated:** [August 16, 2026, 8:21pm UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/can-the-runner-become-the-chaser/867 "2026-08-16T20:21:33Z")
I decided to stop texting him like 3 months ago and stop stalking his socials based on some of the advice. Was basically driving myself crazy checking his instagram every five minutes and reading into every little thing. … --- ## [Dark Night of the Soul for Twin Flames?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/dark-night-of-the-soul-for-twin-flames/1635)
**Author:** [@TwinTelepathyReal](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/TwinTelepathyReal)\ **Replies:** 30\ **Last updated:** [August 16, 2026, 12:59pm UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/dark-night-of-the-soul-for-twin-flames/1635 "2026-08-16T12:59:02Z")
Anyone else deep in the dark night stretch? There’s so much conflicting advice and information about what this could even mean for twin flames and it’s hard. Even when you know what it is and you know union is on the oth… --- ## [How to telepathically communicate with your twin flame?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/how-to-telepathically-communicate-with-your-twin-flame/859)
**Author:** [@astral\_traveler](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/astral_traveler)\ **Replies:** 30\ **Last updated:** [August 16, 2026, 12:58pm UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/how-to-telepathically-communicate-with-your-twin-flame/859 "2026-08-16T12:58:50Z")
I really like the info on twin flame telepathy and it happens all the time for me when I don’t mean it (like when going to sleep or just going through my day) but can I use it intentionally? Can I use it to talk to them … --- ## [Body Sensations During Twin Flame Separation?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/body-sensations-during-twin-flame-separation/1718)
**Author:** [@SoulAlchemist](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/SoulAlchemist)\ **Replies:** 20\ **Last updated:** [August 15, 2026, 7:49pm UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/body-sensations-during-twin-flame-separation/1718 "2026-08-15T19:49:28Z")
I’ve been curious about twin flame body sensations for a while and how they show up differently for each of us. For me, it’s this warm pressure right behind my sternum, like someone lit a small candle inside my ribcage t… --- ## [The Signs Your Twin Flame is Thinking of You Sexually?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/the-signs-your-twin-flame-is-thinking-of-you-sexually/436)
**Author:** [@GracefulSoul](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/GracefulSoul)\ **Replies:** 42\ **Last updated:** [August 13, 2026, 1:46am UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/the-signs-your-twin-flame-is-thinking-of-you-sexually/436 "2026-08-13T01:46:48Z")
I’ve seen people talk about the… physical side of things while you’re apart and the thread on arousal during separation. There are signs for other things… are there any signs that your twin flame is thinking of you sexua… --- ## [Eye contact with your twin the first time?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/eye-contact-with-your-twin-the-first-time/914)
**Author:** [@DivinePurpose](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/DivinePurpose)\ **Replies:** 44\ **Last updated:** [August 10, 2026, 3:05am UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/eye-contact-with-your-twin-the-first-time/914 "2026-08-10T03:05:21Z")
What did it feel like when you first had eye contact with your twin flame? Does everyone get this eye lock thing or can there be differences? --- ## [Signs Twin Flame Healing is Working?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/signs-twin-flame-healing-is-working/1681)
**Author:** [@mirror\_soul\_magic](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/mirror_soul_magic)\ **Replies:** 23\ **Last updated:** [August 8, 2026, 2:03pm UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/signs-twin-flame-healing-is-working/1681 "2026-08-08T14:03:53Z")
It feels like everyone talks about twin flame healing in a very abstract way. Kind of used as generic advice without really much point for guidance. Someone asks what they should be doing. The answer they’re given is: ju… --- ## [Twin Flame vs Soul Ties?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/twin-flame-vs-soul-ties/1721)
**Author:** [@mystic-rose](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/mystic-rose)\ **Replies:** 18\ **Last updated:** [August 5, 2026, 2:45am UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/twin-flame-vs-soul-ties/1721 "2026-08-05T02:45:23Z")
What’s the difference in a twin flame and a soul tie? The lines feel blurry. Is there an actual difference between them, or are we just labeling whoever messed us up the most? How did you figure out which one you were d… --- ## [What Really ARE Synchronicities?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/what-really-are-synchronicities/583)
**Author:** [@divine-timing](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/divine-timing)\ **Replies:** 28\ **Last updated:** [August 4, 2026, 10:29am UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/what-really-are-synchronicities/583 "2026-08-04T10:29:11Z")
We talk about signs, synchronicity, sync, synchs, messages or patterns. Whatever you want to call them. What are they? Where do they come from? Does everyone get them? How do you tell the difference between weird coinci… --- ## [Would You Be Happy Just Being Friends With Your TF?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/would-you-be-happy-just-being-friends-with-your-tf/815)
**Author:** [@gentle-heart](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/gentle-heart)\ **Replies:** 41\ **Last updated:** [August 3, 2026, 5:19pm UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/would-you-be-happy-just-being-friends-with-your-tf/815 "2026-08-03T17:19:33Z")
I know people have different opinions about platonic twin flames or whether or not you can just stay friends. I’ve read through those and plenty of others. But I am curious… would you be satisfied just being friends wit… --- ## [Have you always felt like something was missing?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/have-you-always-felt-like-something-was-missing/948)
**Author:** [@Greycat](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/Greycat)\ **Replies:** 22\ **Last updated:** [August 3, 2026, 1:21am UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/have-you-always-felt-like-something-was-missing/948 "2026-08-03T01:21:53Z")
I know I did all my life. I felt different, I was a bit strange. A loner in my own world. Struggled to make friends and struggled with men too later on. I think part of that is my upbringing (stuff to heal from). I remem… --- ## [Astral Projection for Twin Flames?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/astral-projection-for-twin-flames/1722)
**Author:** [@MyTrueLove](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/MyTrueLove)\ **Replies:** 17\ **Last updated:** [July 29, 2026, 6:20pm UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/astral-projection-for-twin-flames/1722 "2026-07-29T18:20:21Z")
Has anyone here actually experienced twin flame astral projection? It’s the process of leaving your physical 3D body and traveling to the astral realm. I read about it a long time before I ever discovered the twin flame … --- ## [Twin Flame Akashic Journeys](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/twin-flame-akashic-journeys/904)
**Author:** [@Isis2024](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/Isis2024)\ **Replies:** 21\ **Last updated:** [July 28, 2026, 6:32pm UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/twin-flame-akashic-journeys/904 "2026-07-28T18:32:20Z")
I was wondering if anyone else here has ever done an akashic journey to explore past lives with their TF? I have gone on a guided journey with a mentor and she channeled messages for me. We explored multiple previous liv… --- ## [Signs Twin Flame Thinks of You During Separation?](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/signs-twin-flame-thinks-of-you-during-separation/917)
**Author:** [@TwinFlameKundalini](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/TwinFlameKundalini)\ **Replies:** 29\ **Last updated:** [July 27, 2026, 2:02am UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/signs-twin-flame-thinks-of-you-during-separation/917 "2026-07-27T02:02:51Z")
Could we collect a list of signs your twin flame is thinking of you during separation? There seems to be so many scattered around the place we kind of sort of mention but a master list of signs might really help keep peo… [Previous page](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/c/general/4.md?page=2) [Next page](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/c/general/4.md?page=4)