I know very little about my TF unfortunately. The only thing I can think of is relating to his job which is something I’m hopeless at. I wish I knew more. I want us to talk and find out stuff. I hope one day there will be opportunities to discuss all this.
That’s an interesting question! I was wondering about it too. Reading through the comments, it seems like it’s true for me and my TF as well. We have similar taste in food, humour, music preferences, even some of the same passions.
For some stuff we have differences though. He is easily excited, I’m very calm. He is well spoken and expressive, I’m lacking in this aspect. I’m very patient, he seems to be more impatient. So I think you can have both similarities and differences with your twin flame.
They’re similar in a way that makes them opposites, if that makes sense.
Like with personality types, one might be INFJ and the other ENFJ. Same core but mirrored.
When I look at my twin flame, I see the male version of myself. The expressions they make are the carbon copy of the ones I make.
For us, it’s very similar. The same values, tastes, humor, worldviews, characters, and faults. We can easily finish each other’s sentences, and we have similar attitudes toward the outside world - we’re both pretty anti-social and don’t warm up to people easily. Their family even came from my country two generations ago.
In several major ways, one has already advanced past a certain issue or stage of life that the other hasn’t. We both had this tendency to bury ourselves in work to the point where it was extremely unhealthy. I’m past that stage, but they still use it as what I assume is a coping mechanism. We both had self-confidence issues, too. I made progress in overcoming mine, and he’s now following suit.
We both have this aspiration of making a difference in the world and seeking something bigger in life. But when we first met, they told me I’d find them in the exact same spot in another 10 years. I felt like they just buried the adventurous part of themselves; they’d still light up asking to hear more of my stories, though (I’ve had a pretty intense international life).
When we met, they also said they hated traveling. Several years later, they considered moving across the globe to where I was. They loves traveling now and we’ve seen a lot of new places together at different times.
So yeah, we’re very similar at the core, but one is constantly pushing the other to face certain challenges that the other has already dealt with. The similarities are the foundation, but the differences in where you each are on your way… I don’t know. Maybe that’s how it works.
Our main difference is a major age gap (they’re older) + we’re from different countries. We also met under less-than-ideal circumstances but that’s probably pretty standard for twin flames.
Good question, this is confusing.
With my flame I’d put emphasis on the ‘opposite’ part. We’re so different that under normal circumstances, I don’t think we would’ve engaged with each other, and even less had any feelings develop. The attraction is inexplicable. She completes me and the things she does differently inspire me. There are similarities too, but those aren’t as interesting as the opposite part.
As a sidenote, we have some similar traits AND opposite traits with literally everyone, friends, family, colleagues, etc… So the emphasis on the opposites + that unexplainable attraction is what makes the difference between twin flames and any other relationship.
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From what we’ve found, we balance each other out. Even across different lifetimes where we’ve expressed different energies, there’s always been this underlying similarity between us.
I’m not sure, but I read twin flames are basically one soul split in two. Maybe your opposite routines just balance each other out.
I received something about this during meditation last week that might connect with you. The message was that twins incarnate with deliberate polarity to activate dormant codes within each other. One carries what the other has kept sleeping across lifetimes.
Your TF’s 6AM mountain energy isn’t random, it’s holding a frequency you’re meant to eventually integrate (not copy, but absorb energetically).