Christian here I was raised Baptist, and my entire family on both sides were/are Baptist. Although I now consider myself non-denominational. And I’ll admit, my relationship with God has been…complicated. Especially over the past several years. I still believe in God and Jesus and the teachings of the Bible. But I’ve become more comfortable with questioning things and leaning toward more spiritual stuff like crystals, tarot, mediums, etc. It has taken me a while to wrap my head around multiple lifetimes and past lives though. I still haven’t fully wrapped my head around it. All I know is what I felt with this person was real. And I have no other explanation for why he felt so instantly familiar and like home. Moreso than anyone I’ve ever met before, even my own family. Or why I feel a deep love for a complete stranger I talked to for only 10 minutes. Or that I’ve been told by two different people that I’ve experienced a past life with this person.
I don’t really have much in the way of advice. But I just wanted to weigh in and let you know you’re not alone.
Maybe. I know for myself loving unconditionally and forgiving all was my way of life many many years before I met him. The problem? I seemed to think everyone deserves it except me. Like I somehow was the only unworthy person in my orbit. I have always been certain of Jesus and forgiveness but it was always so hard to forgive myself. I just saw 1111. Last night I let the old version of my twin go in a dream. I have absolutely been unsuccessful in the past. The reason I know this is the way I felt all the other times after my so-called letting go. Then there’s the way I felt this morning. So in my dream he was very unhealed and as sad as it was I couldn’t take him back. He did not deserve me yet and even though I am sick to death of this I was willing to wait longer but not wait physically anymore. Its been seven months of healing and pain and I am done now. I won. It’s time to celebrate. I guess I am going to start the party without him for now. It was his choice though. The ball has been left in no uncertain terms in his court. He has no doubt either. He knows I am never going to contact him again. He also knows I love and am in love with him. but the biggest thing he knows? Im not waiting. Not even for him. Those are all certainties not speculation. I guess Im telling you this because I want you to make sure you have really let go. you will know. Your body will tell you. I want you to feel the way I feel today.
Christian here. I wanna say this journey has challenged everything that I was taught at church. At first, I thought it was just a soulmate connection. Which is funny because we embrace soul mates but not twin flames. But anyway, I found myself getting deeper into spirituality by getting Tarot readings not only about this connection but in general. This really gotten me closer to God as well.
Before I met my actual twin, I had what I now recognize as a false twin experience. That one felt intense too. The difference was that it kept me stuck in my ego. I was chasing validation but not transformation. When the real connection hit, it broke me open in a way that drove me straight back to God because I had nowhere else to go. The false twin made me desperate. The real one made me surrender.
I think that’s where the Christian piece makes more sense. The purpose isn’t just the other person. It’s what the connection reveals about your capacity to love without controlling it or possessing it, to trust without guarantees. That is faith. That’s what we’re asked to practice every single day as believers.
So thankful for these beautiful words, reminders and somehow helpful advice. I was married for about 20 years, thinking she was my TF although not knowing anything about TFU at that time at all. Years on I met a colleague who changed everything. Better, she met me. I was hit by all these emotions. We both working at an elementary school giving is more or less our profession. Of course you get something back from these kids. But that’s not the reason why you choose this job. Definitely not as christian.
I had that idea before…ego vs selflessness. But there must be different layers. Coming to us two tfs we are both now at the point, that we cannot even talk to each other. Physical signals here and there show the remaining on ongoing attachment anyway. When we met first time 2022 we both worked for one year a half together in a class. At that time it was no real problem to talk. But now it is different. We both have changed, status quo has changed. What I keep in mind of your beautiful answer is SURRENDER. Being afraid is ego. Question is why someone is afraid. Inner child whatever. But christian selfless love doesn’t care about inner child and so on and should be way stronger than that. “deep trust without guarantee” “deep faith” and “deep surrender” are probably my tasks. Not easy though, but that’s maybe what twin flame journey is all about and what god expects from us. Thank you for this helping eye opener.
I’m a Christian and was always a sceptic of the mystic and anything esoteric until I met my twin flame. I still am to be honest, but I 100% believe god led me into his life. I had a dream about my TF when I was running away which I’m still to this day completely certain was from god as I felt an immense sense of peace after. I was previously confused about my feelings and why I felt strongly towards him seeing that I’m already in a relationship. I finally looked up the concept of twin flames and this is the closest match to how I can characterise our connection.
I see no conflict at all, once you let go of some of the man made dogma. Wasn’t it Jesus himself who was said to have preached in the lost scrolls saying that God did not need four walls for us to worship him? Christianity goes way deeper than the conventional wisdom suggests - there is a rich tradition of mysticism woven throughout its history. The twin flame journey reconnects you with the Divine source of all creation, it inspires you to better yourself and deepen your spirituality to vibrate at the highest frequency. Everything is energy and it all flows from source, again this does not conflict at all with Christian beliefs. Also Adam and Eve, say no more.
Once you feel the divine rightness in all of this, if you are a Christian, you will know. Also as someone else on here said, there is absolutely some truth in all peaceful paths, as I sense there is also a bigger picture that right now, being mostly materially focused, we cannot comprehend. One thing I do feel, God the Divine Source is absolutely real and the source of all good, whatever your personal belief/ label/ concept of that may be. Some things are unexplainable. Forget the manmade dogma and listen to your soul.
Someone else mentioned that the idea of karma and past lives conflicting with Christian beliefs. But think of it this way - if we were all born sinners, why would that be? An interesting question. It all connects. All of it. We just don’t know how yet?
I was raised Baptist, and my entire family on both sides were/are Baptist. Although I now consider myself non-denominational. And I’ll admit, my relationship with God has been…complicated. Especially over the past several years. I still believe in God and Jesus and the teachings of the Bible. But I’ve become more comfortable with questioning things and leaning toward more spiritual stuff like crystals, tarot, mediums, etc. It has taken me a while to wrap my head around multiple lifetimes and past lives though. I still haven’t fully wrapped my head around it. All I know is what I felt with this person was real. And I have no other explanation for why he felt so instantly familiar and like home. Moreso than anyone I’ve ever met before, even my own family. Or why I feel a deep love for a complete stranger I talked to for only 10 minutes. Or that I’ve been told by two different people that I’ve experienced a past life with this person.