This is one of those things that people disagree on.
Some believe that union is inevitable regardless of what you do. That you’re going to end up in union in this lifetime.
Others believe that you have an opportunity of reaching union, but it’s predicated on both of you being ready for it.
If the twin flame journey is being played out infinitely across multiple lifetimes (which many believe it is), then there’s nothing to suggest that it’s guaranteed. In fact, I think if you look at the number of people who don’t find a happy, normal relationship… I find it hard to believe that it is guaranteed.
In my own experience, I can absolutely see how close it was to failing. It was actually incredibly unlikely to have worked out.
I met my twin in a country on the other side of the world where we both happened to be in a city for the same couple of days and happened to run into eachother. We were both about to leave and would never have had an opportunity to see each other again.
The number of small things that had to line up just perfectly for us to meet like that was crazy. I absolutely do believe that 99/100 we would have passed each other by. Two ships in the night in a city of millions.
Maybe we did exactly that in our previous lifetime. Came this close, but just walked by on the street. I’m pretty sure I would still have checked her out in a past life, though.
Twin flames can absolutely end up together.
I (personally) believe that if you’re lucky enough to meet your twin in this lifetime, then think how incredibly unlikely that is. Out of the billions of people in the world, you’ve managed to get close enough that you know who they are.
That already has to be 1000-1.
I think if you know who your twin flame is, there’s at least the opportunity. I think the universe works with you and wants you to succeed.
But I do not think it is a guarantee. I think if you’re stilling back and crossing your fingers, then you’ll be left waiting for another lifetime.