Oh same, I really wanna know this too.
There’s just this weird feeling that keeps telling me not to reach out, like something saying I should wait, and I can’t really explain it. So I just… don’t. And then I sit here hoping maybe he feels it too and will message me first (which sounds ridiculous when I type it out lol).
But nope. Still waiting over here.
The standoff dynamic is so real. I used to cave when the silence got unbearable, but somewhere along the way I started trusting timing over impulse. ‘The Power of Now’ by Eckhart Tolle was useful for that (more than I expected).
Now I only reach out when it genuinely feels right, not when I’m just hurting and desperate for contact.
Sometimes the universe pulls them away to push you into growth. You can’t stay in that same cycle forever.
And that’s usually when they start feeling your energy too, like it becomes almost overwhelming for them.