Most people spend a long time just in survival mode for a while. We go through an awakening and we don’t know what’s happening or why.
Then it goes one of two directions. You either learn how to do your inner work and how to surrender to the journey… or you stay stuck for years until you eventually quit. That’s over 90% of the people who think they’re on the twin flame journey.
You’ll probably get some answers about how to make it easy and manage some of the symptoms and those are all perfectly valid while you are trying to figure it out but nothing will help you move through anything but separation if you’re not actually doing the work.
Also, real talk - support matters so much. Connect with others and not just the ones stuck where you are. Look for those who can help you take it further. The times it ‘gets worse’ are usually when you’re both hitting big growth periods. Old wounds surfacing. Insecurities showing up. Pay attention to that stuff because it’s showing you what still needs healing.