# See Yourself From Your Twin Flames Eyes?

**URL:** <https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/see-yourself-from-your-twin-flames-eyes/1755>\
**Category:** General\
**Created:** [July 23, 2026, 4:57am UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/see-yourself-from-your-twin-flames-eyes/1755 "2026-07-23T04:57:04Z")\
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**Author:** ![mirror\_healing](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/user_avatar/forum.twinflamecollective.com/mirror_healing/32/17_2.png) [@mirror\_healing](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/mirror_healing)\
**Post date:** [September 15, 2026, 7:39am UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/see-yourself-from-your-twin-flames-eyes/1755/21 "2026-09-15T07:39:47Z")

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Seeing yourself through their eyes is incredible, all that beautiful mirror stuff. But when they’re in runner mode, those same eyes just make you want to throw something across the room.

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**Author:** ![StarGirl](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/user_avatar/forum.twinflamecollective.com/stargirl/32/276_2.png) [@StarGirl](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/StarGirl)\
**Post date:** [September 15, 2026, 7:51pm UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/see-yourself-from-your-twin-flames-eyes/1755/22 "2026-09-15T19:51:12Z")

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Great topic!

Viewing myself through his eyes actually helped me heal a LOT because I have deep wounds surrounding beliefs I’m just the worst EVERYTHING. Unworthy of even existing. Feeling pre-apologetic for entering a room with other people in it.

I’d be feeling really down on myself one day. I didnt do ABC as well as I’d like. I didn’t get XYZ done like I wanted. I must be terrible.

Then suddenly, I’d see myself from the entirely opposite direction out of nowhere, for no reason. And I’d see all the things I DID do that day, and how well… like REALLY well…I did considering all the things going on in my life.

Bit by bit, I found self love and acceptance because of this. It showed me where to heal within myself that made me believe so lowly of who I am. Then it moved on to realize I didn’t need HIM to see me that way, I needed ME to see me that way. Then stand true to that, even if NO ONE saw the real me. So I’m integrating that now.

Which is tough, because I slowly realized I dont think its him I was feeling in regards to this at least, as in all ways it seems he sincerely dislikes everything about me. But the years I spent believing he saw me, and loved what he saw, had already done that transformative work.

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**Author:** ![flame](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/f/ebca7d/32.png) [@flame](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/flame)\
**Post date:** [September 18, 2026, 2:00am UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/see-yourself-from-your-twin-flames-eyes/1755/23 "2026-09-18T02:00:35Z")

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all the time honestly 🥺

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