# Should You Text Your Twin Flame?

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**Created:** [January 13, 2026, 5:17am UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/should-you-text-your-twin-flame/1042 "2026-01-13T05:17:41Z")\
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**Author:** ![Dasbopster](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/user_avatar/forum.twinflamecollective.com/dasbopster/32/307_2.png) [@Dasbopster](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/u/Dasbopster)\
**Post date:** [January 13, 2026, 6:36am UTC](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/should-you-text-your-twin-flame/1042/3 "2026-01-13T06:36:11Z")

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There is nothing wrong with texting your twin flame.

I have seen some people being very vocal, telling people they essentially _have_ to ignore their twin and the entire journey, but basic common sense should tell you that’s not going to work.

It’s _why_ you are contacting them that is going to matter.

I would read this thread on [twin flame surrender](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/how-do-i-actually-surrender-to-tf-journey/1037). You could text your twin flame all day long as long as it comes from a place of _genuine_ surrender.

If you are texting them constantly, full of chasing energy with the hope of saying the right things that will cause them to instantly come back before either of you is ready… then you shouldn’t be texting them because it won’t be helping either of you.

There are some stories from the old forum about what happened when people reached out to their twin:

> **[Should You Text Your Twin Flame? 9 Real Stories From Those Who Reached Out -...](https://twinflamecollective.com/should-you-text-your-twin-flame-6-real-stories-from-those-who-reached-out/)**
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> Anyone who has gone through separation (or still is) has felt that magnetic pull to reach out to our twin during separation.

And you are right. If you’re not talking, _someone_ is going to have to make contact if you want a story like this from the other day:

> [@Last Night I I Told My Twin Flame I Love Him](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/last-night-i-i-told-my-twin-flame-i-love-him/1011):
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> I spent all of last year in separation and going through hell and did not really want to repeat that this year. I had been doing a lot of with the [blueprint](https://twinflamecollective.com/blueprint/) since the beginning of winter and after reading the post on [twin flame inner work](https://forum.twinflamecollective.com/t/what-is-twin-flame-inner-work-the-only-thing-for-reaching-union/962), I started to wonder if I was actually ready. He unblocked me a while ago and I did notice but decided not to act on it. Last night, I finally sent him a message telling him everything. That I’ve been in love with him this whole time. Couldn’t do face-to-face…

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