Interesting thread. Usually we talk about sex and it sticks around the 3D physical stuff and about how special it is (which is true) but just like you said in the other thread, the journey is about more than just a physical relationship.
Sex with your twin flame is both an awakening tool and a potential space to get stuck.
You’re describing the boundary problem that trips up so many DFs. The physical intensity becomes the test precisely because it’s so overwhelming. When they come back radiating that sexual energy after months of ghosting, every cell wants to dive right back in… but that’s exactly when maintaining sovereignty matters most.
If you immediately return to physical intimacy, you get that incredible soul merge experience again… and then watch them pull away because the cycle isn’t complete. Like a cat just rolling in catnip every time it is offered. They’re subconsciously testing whether you’ve anchored into your power or if you’ll give it away for that connection. The sexual dynamic has to transform from chaotic push-pull into conscious sacred expression.
I got shouted at once for trying to explain this.
The practice of honoring your boundaries is not prudish. Have as much sex as you want. Join swinger clubs if that works for you. Just understand the difference in having sex for fun and allowing it to become an obstacle in the bigger journey. Many of us get so overwhelmed by the intensity that we forget we’re allowed to have standards and boundaries. The sexual pull can make you lose yourself if you’re not careful.