Oh god, you’re definitely not alone in this! Like at this point, just thinking about them sends my whole body into overdrive. It’s gotten to where I can literally just close my eyes and picture us together and that’s enough to… well, you know.
The crazy part is how VIVID it all feels? Like my brain has created this whole parallel reality where we’re actually together and my body just responds to it like it’s real. Sometimes I wonder if this is making the energetic connection stronger or if I’m just going insane from the separation.
Multiple times a day has become my new normal, too, and it’s exhausting but also the only thing that gives me even temporary relief. The fantasies have gotten so detailed at this point that I swear I can feel them.
The no contact makes it worse because all that energy just keeps circulating with no outlet except… yeah. You’re definitely not alone in this particular brand of twin flame torture.
Just curious…has anyone tried to interacting with your twin’s sexual energy when it occurs instead of trying to escape it? Try to sync up with their energy? Specifically when it feels extremely strong or perhaps pointed at you?
The main thing that helps is working on balancing your own energy. Try to keep your energy centered within yourself instead of constantly reaching out to connect with your twin flame. It’s tricky - you’re not trying to shut down your feelings completely, just managing them so you don’t get stuck in that exhausting push-pull pattern.
A lot of this comes down to moving away from fear-based energy (which keeps you stuck in your head and separated) and moving toward soul energy that’s based in love.
Yes for me it started after 6 months of breakup and along with this also got strong surge of love and emotions for him when I thought I had come out of the sadness and getting on with life phase. I did not think we were twin flames until this point. I am a celibate for close to 20 years and no sexual urges after I got divorced. Then we met and went out for a short while, after 2 months, he DM broke up with me. Life was crazy for 2 months almost crying and then things got better and thought I can get past this and continue my life but then strong sexual energy at random times, waking up in the middle of the night to pleasure myself, urges during work hours, sometimes in traffic, it had become uncontrollable for a few months, I thought my hormones were off, got those tested, all normal. Sexual energy was crazy for a few months before it subsided. And I was never this high sexual energy person before this. So yeah, it happens.
When my twin was going through severe depression and anxiety episodes, the energy I’d pick up was all over the place - sometimes intense arousal mixed with what felt like despair, and I couldn’t always tell what was mine versus theirs. It made everything so much harder to process.
It might be that you’re naturally empathic and picking up on collective energy or the energy of people you’re emotionally connected to in general.
Don’t be afraid to take care of yourself. If your body needs release, that’s just energy moving through you. You don’t have to assign meaning to every sensation or worry that you’re somehow intruding on someone else’s intimate moments. Sometimes our bodies just process emotions through the lower chakras whether we want them to or not.
Be gentle with yourself. You’re clearly sensitive, and that’s not a bad thing - it just takes time to understand.
OMG! This! It’s brutal! Been like this since January. Some days I try to ignore it and get on with my day, and others…well, let’s say I’m glad I work from home! January marked around 4/5 months since separation began, and the pain and chasing energy started to ease, then this took over! Some days now I get a reprieve at least, but it’s intense. Since I had a soul merge “dream” last month, I can’t seem to distinguish what feelings are mine and what are his any more. Either that, or I’ve stopped trying to pinpoint it and just tried to get on with my life.
This past couple of weeks, non stop snogging/kissing and psychic sex, even when I was talking the dog out I could hear us at it? It usually starts in the evening at 10pm, I feel my root chakra vibrate on cue and sometimes I feel like it wants to spin out my body. Never had sex in almost 2 decades and since this year, non-stop psychic sex. Already had a soul merge dream.
