Sun signs are just the surface layer. Check your composite chart, that’s the chart of the relationship itself and it matters more than individual compatibility. Our composite has a stellium in the 8th house, which explains the intense transformation we go through together.
I wouldn’t worry too much about the ‘incompatible’ signs thing. Twin flame synastry works differently than regular compatibility - you’re looking for grand trines and heavy opposition aspects since twins are supposed to be yin/yang mirrors. Aries-Cancer creates that opposition energy. If you check your full charts, you’ll probably find sun-moon conjunctions or sun-ascendant aspects that don’t show up when you just compare sun signs. Surface incompatibility can mean you’re dealing with a twin connection rather than a regular soulmate thing. I’d look at whether your synastry chart shows those divine masculine/feminine balancing patterns.
I love this perspective. I think God/Universe/Source uses whatever tools are necessary for our growth, and sometimes that means putting two ‘incompatible’ signs together on purpose.
Twins usually have some compatibility even in zodiac signs… don’t just look for the sun sign… look for the moon sign and rising sign… all are equally important…especially in spiritual journeys… moon sign is very important
My twin and I are textbook ‘incompatible’ signs too. The astrological incompatibility was almost a mirror - I ran because the intensity was too much. Traditional astrology said we shouldn’t work anyway, which gave my ego an excuse to avoid what terrified me about how deep this connection went.
I just saw your post and had to laugh. I am an Aries chaser and my twin is a libra runner. I told him once we are literally Venus and mars lol
I’m a Scorpio DF with an Aries DM, so I get where you’re coming from since water and fire signs are supposed to be challenging, too. We don’t really follow traditional astrology compatibility rules. The parts that astrology says are ‘incompatible’ do create friction between us. That friction leads to a lot of mirror work, which is kind of what the twin flame thing is about.