Do we have to wait for them to reach out for a reunion?
Does it always have to be the masculine who makes that move? If I just swallow my pride and send the first message, could that be enough and tomorrow we would be together? Everyone seems to be waiting for them but is there nothing we can do?
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It depends and I feel it’s different at each stage of the journey. If you are reaching from an authentic place and are genuinely ok and will not spiral if he does not respond, then I think it’s ok to reach first. But if you are reaching because you need reassurance and/or validation, then it comes from chaser energy which I personally am trying to move away from. But if you are both on speaking terms, there’s nothing wrong with sending an occasional checking in text/call. Go with your gut on this one 
On that note. I keep seeing that there is no gender in tarot. So, would that also be true for DM & DF? Is that just the energy we hold or are they actually genders specific?
Only you know that answer. I have had the power this whole time. I have things I can tell him and pictures I can show him. I have people in my life that saw things when they were with me. I have a complete road map of our journey that he will not be able to look away from. Starting before we met. I can break his brain if I want. I could send one text and he would be here. But how will that make things better? It won’t. I don’t want someone who does not want me. I don’t care how much it hurts. Who would want to spend the rest of their life with someone never knowing they chose you? Im already the queen of pain lol. I got this. So I gave it back to God. I asked for his plan and timing instead. I know I will get to tell my story when the time is right. This is not for the weak. This is not something you do with one eye closed and a hand tied behind your back. Either go all in and find your true home, or just stop now and go be happy. No middle ground in this journey. Go big or go home. Be strong or fall in the puddle of tears and lonliness. Always always your choice.
I send friendly hi messages and silly friendship stuff. Sometimes a response other time not. He is very close so I cant l get into a chase. The ball is in his court. He has to finish his dark nights and make a decision to cobtact me hard but I know soon he is coming as I feel him shifting his energy and is no longer running.