Doubt is good early on, but don’t let it “scare” you. Doubt and uncertainty can lead us to growth and help us not get trapped with karmics or in our own ruts.
Danielle spoke about this years ago in a way that struck a chord with me.
There is an unfortunate trend of people blaming the “false twin,” which becomes a catch-all term for anyone who isn’t your real twin, as if they’re doing something wrong or evil. For example, if your twin flame is already married, then their “evil false twin” is the problem.
They’re not. This kind of mindset is keeping people stuck in permanent separation. The third party is there to help learn a lesson, and that’s an important step to be ready for union with the real deal.
(source)