Thank you for posting this! I think we really need something to point to for people who are not actually doing anything but sitting on their hands waiting. I say that as someone who was guilty of doing the same thing. Maybe some kind of accountability thread like “what have you done recently”? Otherwise, people might get pumped up for a day or two… then forget when they’re not immediately in union after writing in a journal a few times.
I know there are different terms for union people use and a lot of people say things like “forget about physical union focus on spiritual union”.
… You can use whatever fancy words you want, but that is you quitting and telling other people they should probably do the same. I’m all for spiritual union but let’s be honest, that’s not what brought us here.
I’ve been falling in love with myself, and people seem to notice - like I’m more attractive even though nothing physical changed. It’s not that I don’t feel the same desire for his 3D self, but it does become more of a background noise, and our communication is a lot better when I’m actively working on myself.