My twin flame has a Virgo Moon and it comes through very strongly in him, so I recognise what you and others are saying on this thread and most of it applies to him. Thank you for posting about this topic 
I love my Virgo twin-especially around the full moon when their grounded energy kind of snaps my scattered self into alignment.
With Virgo twin flames, the connection often shows up through purification and refinement rather than drama and fireworks. Virgo carries that priest/priestess energy, so part of your shared dynamic might be about bringing spiritual practice into ordinary, practical areas - health routines, work, service, how you handle money or your home. If you’re in separation, you can still work with this by consciously treating your daily tasks as sacred. Your body, schedule, environment become the altar where that union energy gets anchored. You’re not just waiting on them; you’re already living out what Virgo is meant to ground here.
One thing I don’t see mentioned yet with Virgo twins is their relationship with timing. Virgo energy is ruled by Mercury, so they often need to understand the ‘why’ and ‘when’ before they budge.
Something that helped me with my Virgo counterpart was sharing concrete, practical updates about my own healing, like what I’m actually doing and how I’m changing, instead of vague emotional check-ins. It gave their mind something structured to hold onto, and over time, it softened their resistance because they could see a process, not just intensity.