If my twin never gets their shit together in this lifetime, I’d rather work on myself and maybe find something healthier than wait around in pain for someone who isn’t even trying. I guess divine timing could mean we’re supposed to evolve separately. That’s hard to accept but it might be true.
I carry a lot of guilt as the runner, knowing I’m causing someone pain. But I can’t force myself to be ready when I’m not. People always act like the runner is just being difficult. Have you thought about the fact that we’re scared we’ll destroy you if we come back too soon? Like before, we’ve actually worked through our stuff?
Sometimes running feels like the only option, even though I know it doesn’t feel that way from the other side.
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You’re strong and doing your best. A lot of people give flack to the runners/DM’s, but DM’s doing what they do is all part of it and they deserve just as much love and empathy.
I’m not sure if I’m the DM or DF/ runner or chaser… I thought i was the chaser but then there are parts where I think I’m runner 
I guess in the end it doesn’t matter, as long as both are loving themselves and working on their selves, and trying to go with the flow, everything should move how it’s supposed to
Free will exists though. You both have to choose it and keep choosing it even when it’s brutal. We have to choose to go through the journey even when we go through DNOTS or hard separation. Nothing is mandated just because your souls have history and made a plan.
Plans get scrapped all the time, maybe the soul contract is the same. I don’t think things are quite that easy but we don’t really know for sure.