She is conventionally “pretty” but has some features that might be considered ugly that I am attracted to like a magnet. She feels like both family and exotic / my polar opposite when I look at her face and body.
Instant and timeless attraction, not like anyone else I’ve ever seen. It’s more like this deep, ancient knowingness that just hits you instantly. So different from how it works with anyone else.
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This is actually also my own case. He looks like someone that could be from my family and overall his features are quite… phenotypal to the ethnic group, I suppose? In fact the first time I noticed his face is because he looks like this child singer in the 90s, and another singer growing up.
Yes he’s pretty, but it adds to the doubt, of course. Like what if I just have a type, a familiarity? But at the same time it helps with surrender because as an adult, I always get a glimpse of him in my own face - aka we ended up growing a bit alike at the eyes. Adding another facet to the “loving yourself is both” thing.
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I think that even if I met his doppelgänger, it would be a hard no.
Without his soul being in that body, it’s a no. It is the soul we are attracted to. But with his soul in that body, it’s a hard “no one else will do”. To me, that is the biggest sign of the real thing vs just a crush.
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He actually matches my “type” that I have had since middle school, and I match his archetype well, too, but it went far beyond just attraction very quickly.
At first, it was his personality. We became friends in an instant. Completely not each other’s type. Soon, I was in love with their eyes and smile.
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Yes, I was very much attracted to mine and felt something for him immediately. Not normal for me at all. Physically, he’s very much my type, from the clothes he wears to the colour of his hair. The way he accessorizes just lightly and even how he holds himself. Something about it just screams “for me”.
It’s my theory that I always knew what he looked like, so my ‘type’ was based on who I knew I was looking for. His wife looks so much like me that I often get mistaken for her.
Since I’ve gotten to know him, though, I’ve discovered we have so much in common, and I feel so comfortable with him; our connection now goes way beyond the physical.
His personality attracted me at first. I felt we had chemistry for days. Questioned myself a lot at first because the physical side he is not my usual “type” but I didn’t even hesitate.
The attraction is definitely there. It’s too much sometimes.
The way my body physically reacts to just being near him is big in a way I’ve never experienced. My heart rate spikes, my hands shake, and I can barely form sentences. I need to step back from that intensity to get my head straight. I’m still doing the work, just… from over here. Where I can breathe.
I am extremely attracted to my twin flame. What’s funny is that she’s the only person I’ve ever been truly attracted to. Before her, I never experienced physical attraction to anyone I was romantically involved with, but she is definitely different from others I was with before. However, before even becoming physically attracted to her, it was her energy that drew me in.
Yes, I really am very attracted to him! At first, he didn’t seem like he was my type, but there was something about him..It’s like all I see is him and no one else seems remotely attractive to me and everyone else seems kind of ‘meh’ to me. The funny thing is, all his mates told him I was way out of his league and that he was punching. If anything, that’s how I feel about him and I am intensely attracted to him.
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Oddly enough…yes!
Which I find quite bizzare. 
I’m not ashamed to admit this, I’m normally attracted to plus size women with large “busts”, not slim fit body types like she is.
She is also slightly cross-eyed, and since her face’s physical apperance is reminescent of my own…well…she reminds me of my mother. 
It’s been years since I’ve seen her in person, and it’s likely her body has changed as a result of the medical treatments she’s had to undergo, but she still manages to rock that “signature” long flowy hair that I love. 
Whereas I’ve been going bald since my early 20’s. 
(Jealous much?)
Overall, if circumstances were different, and she’d be open to it, I certainlty woudn’t mind taking her to bed! 
Side note: Could one of the reasons for a masculine “runner” to avoid the connection be a subconscious stigma associated with being labeled a “motherf****r”? 
Totally feel this, me and my twin are currently expressing this to each other physically, spiritually and verbally, i understand it but she is learning in a rapid way as she is very new to awakening, its the most intense burn we have ever felt.
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Yes but it is the whole package, and FWIW I know we are both not each other’s usual type. He is a tall well-built guy and seems to like dinky blondes. I’m a tallish plus-size brunette. Physically I am more similar to him than the women he has gone for previously. Maybe having a type is part of what he is healing from.
I’m not going to lie, sometimes it hurts that he hasn’t seemed to recognise me in 3D because that type of woman was holding or catching his attention instead, whether or not they actually treated him well. Sometimes you think, hello? I’m right here. I’m not going to cheat on you or walk away from you. Then you remember the connection is always there anyway and that’s just the ego talking.
I’ve never really been with a muscular man before, but I like that about him because he’s very loyal and protective personality-wise and it adds to the feeling that he would be that way with me if we got together in 3D. His light eyes are intense and very attractive, and he has a wonderful voice. When we worked more closely together, I talked to him on the phone a lot and always loved listening to him.
His natural scent does something to my brain that no cologne on any other person has ever done.
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The attraction here goes deeper than anything physical. I know that if my TF’s body changed completely - through age, illness, whatever - I would still be attracted.
We’re loving their eternal essence, not a temporary vessel.
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Yes she is the most beautiful woman I ever saw but its much deeper than the surface
This resonates so much! The whole ‘no initial spark but then BAM’ thing is low-key exactly what happened with me too. Like at first my brain was just processing them as another person, nothing special. But once that deeper connection clicked into place, it was high-key game over for anyone else ever.
OMG, this!! His scent melts me in ways I can barely describe. I don’t know if his scent is naturally strong or if I just pick up on it more keenly due to our connection, but I just want to breathe it in forever.
Even small things like his laugh or the way he stands send an unexpected thrill through me now. Every fiber of me knows he’s the only one who can light up that spark in my body.