This might seem like a strange question but are you physically attracted to your twin flame?
I can’t really explain this experience myself. He isn’t what I would have normally have been attracted to before. My friends call him “average” and maybe he has a bit of an uneven grin but in a cute way. Nothing model-esque.
And I say this not to put him down at all.
I’m so physically attracted to this man I can’t even find anyone else remotely attractive any more. I feel absolutely nothing for anyone else with the kind of physique I used to go for. Like zero spark. That part of me is just offline for anyone else, apparently
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I believe that the attraction between twin flames doesn’t come from outward appearances, those are secondary. Of course it helps if you also find your twin physically attractive, but I think the real attraction is based on frequency, vibration, vibes, resonance, energy.
That being said, I’ve noticed that my twin actually fits the “type” I’ve been drawn to before. Still, when you haven’t met in real life yet, you naturally start overthinking before a first meeting, wondering if your twin will even find you attractive, or if they had different expectations of you.
But I believe those are mostly our own fears being projected. If someone truly is your twin, I don’t think they can not be drawn to you and vice versa.
At first he looked like a nice but average kind of guy, then when we locked eyes it of course hit me with the recognition and all that. Couldn’t get him out of my head ever since, and he quickly became the most attractive man I’ve only ever wanted.
He’s a lot younger but he’s cute. I remember thinking that when he smiled at me the second time and my stomach flipped and I wondered what was happening. He’s tall too which is nice. My ex was only 2 inches taller and I prefer a bit of height in a man. He has kind eyes and a lovely smile.
My TF doesn’t fit my typical type at all. Like imagine if you always ordered chocolate ice cream and suddenly vanilla becomes the most delicious thing you’ve ever tasted. That’s basically what happened.
When you’re doing portrait photography, you learn to spot every little ‘flaw’ in a face. I’ve trained my eye to notice asymmetry, skin texture, all of it.
But with my TF, who objectively is just a generic guy, nothing special, I literally cannot find a single unattractive thing about them no matter how hard I try. I’ve had crushes on people who actually match my ‘type’ better, and those feelings barely register in comparison.
Twin flames often aren’t each other’s usual ‘type.’ The attraction catches people off guard because it’s rooted in the soul bond itself. You’re craving each other’s essence and energy at the soul level, and that craving just takes physical form.
This is lifetimes of chemistry building up. All those past-life connections create an intensity that explodes when you finally make contact in the 3D. That’s why your twin ends up being more attractive to you than anyone else, even when they might not fit what you’d normally go for.
I’ve seen people years into separation still feeling this way. Their friends try to set them up with conventionally attractive people and… nothing.
YES. God yes. Mine wasn’t my type either. At all. I was almost confused at first about why I found him so attractive. He didn’t match the mental picture I had of who I thought I’d end up with. My ego was questioning it because he didn’t look like what I’d pictured. A lot of our physical ‘preferences’ before meeting our twin are based on ego stuff and insecurities more than genuine attraction.
Society conditions us to think magnetism comes down to looks primarily.
With twin flames there’s this deep soul-level peace and familiarity. I think when you meet your twin it kind of breaks your previous ‘type.’ Suddenly all those features you thought you needed in a partner seem so unimportant.
Your soul knows what it wants and everyone else just doesn’t register. Twin flame attraction is based on familiarity. It’s like trying to get back to something that feels like home. You’re not interested in exploring anyone else because nothing compares. Your friends calling him average means literally nothing btw. Not being someone’s ‘type’ doesn’t mean they don’t find you breathtakingly attractive.
With normal attraction, that feeling tends to dip the longer you’re with someone. The excitement of the unknown fades but twin flame attraction actually increases the longer the interaction goes on. It doesn’t follow normal rules because the basis is different.
Hell yes, I am intensely attracted to mine. He is an exceptionally attractive man by almost any standard, but he isn’t my usual type. I am also very, very rarely attracted to other people, and never by looks alone. I can recognise someone’s conventionally attractive without feeling any attraction myself, and can count on one hand the number of times I’ve felt a deep level of attraction, all of which have come with attraction to their personality first. I also felt an attraction to my TF (which I couldn’t explain and didn’t want to look at) before I ever knew what he looked like.
The way my twin ignites a fire within my whole body is something I’ve never experienced with anyone else - even people I’d normally find attractive don’t come close to that unique, all-consuming physical pull.
The way I can just get lost in their eyes for hours - that’s where the attraction really lives for me. I’m connected to their soul more than anything physical.
I totally agree. The first time I saw my twin flame, I didn’t get that instant spark, but I noticed he resembled my cousin, and that’s all.
He was the one who were so magnetized by my aura and he would keep gazing at me from a distance being a new colleague in my workplace. But when he did the first romantic move after a few more non-spark interactions, our eyes locked, and there went the intense spark that awakened my deepest core, especially during our first kiss, followed by intimate moments.
He became the most attractive man in the whole wide universe, so that now, even in temporary separation, I couldn’t even imagine myself with any other partner. Every inch of him is just so perfect.
So my twin and I met several months ago in a ride queue. I had started talking to him, but there wasn’t any kind of instant, intense attraction. Not even a “oh he’s cute”. He wasn’t unattractive…just not my typical “type” (although my “type” fluctuates depending on the guy - slightly less about physical appearance and more about aura/personality) and I also just wasn’t in that headspace in the moment. In fact, I initially clocked him as “highly resonant = close friend material”.
But then a few weeks after we met the fantasies started. Which is not like me - I don’t really fantasize about people, not even my husband (…awkward ). I tried to push those thoughts away for a few months and keep the idea of him in a platonic box, but he just wouldn’t stay there. And once I finally accepted that, my libido, which had been more or less dormant for about a decade, came roaring back to life with a vengeance.
The wild part is we talked for maybe 10 minutes in that line, then got separated before we could exchange personal info. We’ve had no way to find or contact each other this whole time. The wildest part of all - I honestly don’t even remember what he looks like. I get quick glimpses, but that’s it. But that hasn’t stopped me from fantasizing or somehow, beyond all logic, being highly attracted to him. To the point where I have zero interest in anyone else. And people I didn’t find attractive before, but who I suddenly realized give me his vibe, I’m now attracted to.
Mine is not my type at all. I like skinny emo guys, tattoos, eyeliner, dark hair, piercing blue eyes.
My twin has dark hair, dark eyes and works out to become bigger, not skinnier. And nothing is seeming to match that now, at all. One of the things that I remembered even from our first meeting (and I didn’t see him for 18 months after it, and totally remembered it all that time) was a small part of a tattoo peeking out from under his t-shirt! I couldn’t stop thinking about that.
One day when I saw him at the gym, he winked and smiled at me and I literally haven’t stopped thinking about that since. I keep telling myself he’s not actually the hottest guy out there, then I think of that wink and smile and I lose my mind!
). I tried to push those thoughts away for a few months and keep the idea of him in a platonic box, but he just wouldn’t stay there. And once I finally accepted that, my libido, which had been more or less dormant for about a decade, came roaring back to life with a vengeance.