I was the chaser for the last 2 months and told myself I was doing really well, I hadn’t contacted him but I would meditate and send him good energy in the hopes that would be enough. Then this morning I saw a Facebook post on a group page with a large picture of him as the post was all about him. I ‘Liked’ the post which is the first time I made any contact in 2 months. Within a few hours I went into panic and decided I don’t want him anymore. I even switched off my phone worrying he’ll contact. I think this means things are shifting that I am no longer the chaser. Even as I write I’m am thinking the last thing I want right now is any contact. It’s so weird that one action changed everything.
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I hope mine does I would love for her to do that to me
I have a question for anyone who has reached union. I am not quite there yet, we are talking but he’s still stating no relationship but also wants to see me again. Last time we saw each other I was so nervous and full of energy I was physically shaking.
Now we are meeting again I am really confident and taking it a nice morning out for coffee and looking forward to it but he’s saying he’s really nervous.
Can this be part of the journey of the push pull with changing emotions? He is still the runner as I would take him back instantly but he is all over the place. There attraction and he really likes me by can’t see it becoming a relationship.
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There was a thread about this from a few weeks back:
And just in general it seems to be a pattern that it can switch, sometimes multiple times.
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I feel like I am the runner again as I’ve booked to visit him and he’s being very nonchalant about it. He invited me and all he could say was see you then and it’s nearly a month away
They say, when you chase, you’re actually pushing them away. When you stop chasing and focus on yourself, you attract.
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