Look, twin flames don’t fit into neat boxes like ‘friends’ or ‘romantic partners’ or whatever label we try to force on them. I’ve learned through my own process that you can be anywhere on that spectrum at different points-sometimes in the same week, hell, sometimes in the same day.
What I do know, sitting in my own messy separation, is that the significance never goes away. You’ll always matter to them in ways that go beyond friendship, and they’ll always matter to you. That’s why the ‘just friends’ thing feels suffocating, like you said because you’re trying to shrink something huge into something manageable.
Can you stay friends forever and never be more? In divine timing, anything’s possible-but also, nothing is really permanent with twins. The connection shifts and evolves. What you are to each other today might not be what you are in six months.
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Nope, we can’t be friends. The physical attraction is too much. However, I did leave the door open when he is ready to come back in physically.
Being ‘just friends’ with them felt like swallowing glass. But it was still better than them being completely gone. I know you’re suffocating when you hang out. I know the small talk feels like a sick joke when you’ve shared souls with this person.
But think about what you just said - you watch them laugh with other people, and at least you GET to watch them. At least you still see their face. At least when they text you normal stuff, your phone still lights up with their name. It keeps a thread connected between you two when everything else feels severed. Yeah, it hurts like hell. Yeah, every cell in your body wants more. But complete silence? Complete absence? That’s worse. Believe me on that. Some twins need total no contact to heal. But if you’re asking this question, if you’re still showing up when they text, maybe you’re like me. Maybe having them in your orbit, even at a painful distance, is what keeps you breathing.
I don’t know if the ‘just friends’ thing is forever or not. Right now it’s something, and something beats nothing when it comes to your twin.
Too intense for me it would be impossible to pretend she is just as simple a connection as a freind imho