Jung said something like ‘you don’t become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious.’ Maybe your hatred is pointing to something you’ve been avoiding about yourself.
I guess you can, but it would just be you hating yourself. TF journey is not a rosewalk, it will trigger like hell, overcoming all these is a thing… but not based on hate, hate is a low frequency. The aim of TFs is unconditional love 
In the past, when I would get angry with my twin, I would always have a friend who would start talking trash about him & in a snap, I would flip on my friend.
I knew they were just trying to be there for me and be a good friend, but I couldn’t help myself.
Yeah of course, hate is an emotion, emotions come from the mind, you are not your mind, and your twin flame is you…so…
No, I can’t hate my twin. We may have misunderstandings, but communication is key. I couldn’t never hate my twin flame they are the most special gift from God that I prayed for.
I tried in the beginning… but there’s no way to hate my twin flame at all, no matter how hard I try. Either way, I don’t want to hate him after all, I freaking love him.
I should hope you never hate your twin because that is as far from self-love as it gets! true tf counterparts share a soul. So how could you develop such a hatred for your own soul?!!
I can’t hate him. I’ve tried. Really, really tried.
I tried to believe he was by far the worst karmic yet. I’ve been with some doozies. Tried to detach. But I can’t. I just wish he were a faster learner
I suppose some people seem to truly hate themselves so maybe it’s possible to hate your twin in that case too.
I don’t hate her, but I do have some resentment towards her.
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I feel like it sometimes. Lately I’ve had waves of anger so overwhelming with nowhere to put it -we’re in no-contact separation and what brought us there was truly awful. I do know that my anger comes from him triggering my deepest wounds, but when I’m in the thick of it, I can’t hold on to that perspective - I just want to burn the whole thing down and forget him entirely.
But eventually, the anger and hurt subsides and my deeper feelings come into focus. I’m learning to ride the wave, I guess. I would agree that the opposite of hate isn’t love, but indifference. I’m afraid of the indifference more than the hatred.
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The feeling is valid … but it’s only showing the wounded part within us that is not yet in unconditional love… if they are not in alignment or doing things that disappoint or just us it just reflects that we are still attached to some expectation of them validating, reciprocating, responding the way we expect and showing us to go within.. but it’s okay to go through cycles of feeling bad and emotions of anger, upset etc …purging wil help clear the body to be able to heal and evolve.. God will guide if you surrender
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Also unlike a 3D equation you can’t “resolve” or sort it out by talking.. the more aligned with your own soul you are , the more negativity and our own karmic imprints release they will feel the shift.. they are the same soul after all if they are your TF
It can be very difficult and I truly feel for you.. Sit with yourself silence, go within, grieve it, release that anger, purse till those emotions keep want to come out over and over ..forgive yourself .. over and over … hold yourself with love ..dance , whatever you love .. look into the mirror .. what so you see ? love? For yourself .. for them? You will have the answer.. it’s ok to have doubts if they are your twinflame… it keeps us grounded and commited to inner work.. often even in. TF journey we create karma by holding judgement, anger, ego… as you transmuting it all, you will feel lighter and evolved .. if they are your twinflame they will come … not immediately or fully changed but it’s about your journey… in the end you wilL win anyway .. for yourself , an ascended and aligned being .. magnetic to attract miracles 
Its possible to be angry with them I dont think if its your twin its possible to truly hate them maybe on the surface when me and my twin encountered each other we would fight a lot she called me selfish I called her stuck up etc I remember one day we were arguing and then something happened we just looked at each other and smiled at the same time a warm knowing smile almost like this is bs we know we both love each other why are we fighting. After that we never argued again we both knew I believe at that point deep down that we both loved each other.
All hate aside. Sometimes I just wonder when the universe is going to give him the spanking he deserves?
When we first separated I was convinced I would hate her for leaving. I even told her of this when we were reunited. I was utterly convinced there would be no other way for me to think of her. When she returned she told me she thought about turning up at my place and I replied that if she had I probably would’ve told her to fuck off. But the reality is I wouldn’t have. Not in a million lifetimes.
Then when she left the second time I was really convinced I hated her for leaving again. That was nearly five years ago. But again it’s the same reality. Time has passed and have I done a lot of soul searching and reflecting, not least on how I truly feel. I can’t hate her for leaving, even though it still does hurt my heart. I love her too much to ever hate. In fact I feel my love grow stronger and deeper despite the distance and silence.