I had to stop looking at their social media completely.
Seeing them with someone else kills me, especially knowing they used to daydream about our future together, just like I still do. They’re probably drowning in the same thoughts but choosing to run toward anything that feels safer than actually dealing with what we both know is there.
Seeing them with someone else is the deepest cut, I know. Please try to see the karmic partner not as your rival, but as a necessary part of the journey for both of you. Your runner isn’t with her because they love you less. They are with her because it is easier.
The connection you share is like a mirror; it reflects all their unhealed wounds, their deepest fears, and the inner work they aren’t ready to do. It’s terrifying for them.
A karmic relationship is often less intense, more familiar, even if it’s unhealthy. It’s a place for their ego to hide from the soul-level growth you trigger in them. She is teaching him lessons he must learn before he can meet you in a healthy space, and she is teaching you patience and self-love.