I’ve been through this. You end up feeling everything they feel, even from a distance. The physical connection that felt electric when you were together stays open somehow. Started seeing their name everywhere after we split, felt like the universe was messing with me.
Cold showers helped when it got overwhelming. And exercise. Doesn’t fix it but makes it manageable enough to get through the day.
Sometimes I’ll think I’m going through something completely personal and then boom,half the community posts about the exact same thing.
It’s weird how we’re all going through similar stuff in our own ways.
From the runner side, we feel you feeling us, and yeah, it creates this brutal feedback loop. Like trying to make it less intense by spreading myself thin. The guilt you’re picking up on? It’s there. We know you can feel what we’re going through, and that just piles on more shame. Then we avoid even harder.
My twin and I used to be so synchronized that it was like we shared one body. We didn’t need words - we just knew what the other person needed. Being separated hasn’t changed that.
I still feel when they’re with someone else, and it bothers me. I’m probably making them uncomfortable, too, when I’m with other people. We were so connected we could talk during sex like it was nothing. Everything between us was easy. Now that same connection means neither of us gets any privacy, and honestly, it makes me want to put even more distance between us.
Surprised we don’t hear about this more often really. You both share an energy template, so when one of you feels something really intense, it can show up in the other person’s body.
It doesn’t always show up in the same spot. Tends to appear in whatever chakra is connected to that feeling instead of where the actual pain or sensation is.
I’d keep this between you and other TFs. Most therapists and spiritual people who aren’t on this path won’t understand and might give you advice that doesn’t apply.
What you’re experiencing is pretty normal. Normal by TF standards anyway.
You and your twin share the same energetic blueprint, one energy in two bodies. Your chakras are connected through cords that work like channels for emotions, physical sensations, and thoughts.
Everything flows back and forth. There are energy techniques for managing these connections. You can learn to filter what comes through the cords while keeping them strong. I coach other TFs on this type of energy work and it helps to have specific tools for handling the intensity.
Even people in Union still work with their cords regularly. It’s like maintenance that keeps everything flowing. The sensations you’re describing are standard for these connections. With some practice, you can work with them instead of feeling overwhelmed.
The invasive stuff was weird at first. It pushed me to figure out what was actually me versus what was coming from them. When I feel their experiences now, I just stop and ask myself what I want. What my body needs. It’s become a way to check in with myself.
Yeah what you’re dealing with is twin flame sexual energy. It goes both ways, whether you like it or not.
When these moments hit you out of nowhere, it’s usually when your twin is trying to disconnect by being physical with someone else. The guilt and emptiness you picked up on say everything.
The tough part is you probably can’t block these feelings completely. The sexual connection between twins is beyond what we can control (kind of like trying to not feel your own heartbeat).
The anxiety was worst when I knew they were with someone else. Got so bad once that I drove to where my gut said they’d be, and yep, their car was right there.
The intensity has calmed down over time though. During one of those upgrade periods a reader mentioned, I had the weirdest physical sensations for three days straight. Like being touched when no one was there. Then I heard her describe the same exact thing on her channel.
Obviously wasn’t my twin being physical with someone for 72 hours straight. This was something else, something energetic. Other than those times, I haven’t felt much on that level.
That sounds really rough 
must be an awful experience, physically and emotionally. I know, for me, that on the odd occasion my partner wants to be intimate(he has a low libido so it’s rare) I’ll start getting intense chest pain until I have to stop, and then the pain disappears and I feel arousal and remote touch. I thought it was odd but I guess my twin was feeling what was about to happen and wanted to stop it? I’m sure your flame also feels out of place or uncomfortable being intimate with someone that isn’t you, they might think there’s no chance you two will end up together and so is trying to move on? Or feels guilty not being intimate with their partner who may want to do those things. If you’re twin flames then they love you and are very likely thinking of you while doing those things to make it easier on themselves, and as such the energy is transferring through
I’ve not felt anything like this from mine, so does that mean he’s not getting any or am I just not picking up on it? I can feel my own bits igniting randomly when he thinks of me sometimes.
He’s likely not getting any.
You’ll know when he is…trust me. 
My twin on the other hand, i sense that they have been getting quite a bit of it lately from their romantic partner.
Though I suspect its not their fiancée. 
This previous Sunday though, right after the strong sexual energy, I felt a “flutter” or “gurgle” in my groin area, and what I can only describe as a spiritual “chill” run through me.
I experienced this before and knew right away…they had gotten pregnant! 
How do you know? Or what are the signs? Im new to this I feel sexual energy everyday
Good to hear from a runners perspective.
Exactly..They can use your energy while they having s3x. 
No external signs to speak of.
Just internal” feel”.
I don’t know how it manifests for women, but for men, the “shaft” grows “out of blue”, and it becomes very…”solid”. Uncomfortably and embarrassingly so at times…
That could very likely be that they’re thinking sexual things about you, though. Or thinking of you while they’re being intimate with another(because really they want to be with you their TF but maybe running) or while being intimate with themselves. I know for myself, that on a couple of occasions I would get that aroused/pleasurable feeling wash over me along with heat and palpitations, and an image/movie clip of what he’s imagining about us pops into my head unexpectedly. So I assume the other times I get the same experiences will be the same reason but I just didn’t get the image flash in my head.
Yes!
I used to get this feeling from them before we even physically met or I even knew about twin flames. Was totally confused at first and then I felt like someone was calling my name while it was happening and I was trying to figure out what I was feeling. Mad!
Yep. I was very confused the first time this happened.
Happened again very recently. I had to do some more inner work to overcome it. It did rattle me still. I coped by knowing that she is his Karmic and is teaching him lessons. I am okay with that. We need to get all this stuff done. Keep the Faith and love ourselves.
I can confirm. Yesterday I had the situation that I was strongly connected to him and in the late evening he gave himself a hand…and I got an orgasm out of nowhere. From 0 to 
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I wouldn’t now how to stay alive when I would feel him with s.o. else…