I need to know if I’m alone in this. Yesterday I physically felt my twin flame having sex with someone else. The sensations were in parts of my body that don’t make… anatomical sense for my gender, which made it even weirder and another reason I know it didn’t come from me.
I’d heard of similar things happening but I hadn’t experienced anything quite as sudden as this before.
It felt invasive and maybe even a little traumatic - like my body was experiencing something it shouldn’t be able to feel. I could sense their emotions too - guilt, disconnect, going through the motions. We’re both trying to move forward with other people during this separation, but this shared sensation thing is making it impossible. I can’t exactly explain this to my therapist without sounding unhinged. Has anyone here dealt with these kinds of physical sensations? How do you block them or at least cope when they happen?
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You’re definitely not alone in this. I think every twin flame experiences this in different ways but for some it’s a lot more obvious than others.
You’re literally feeling through their body, not yours. It’s like your energy body is receiving signals your physical body doesn’t know how to process properly.
The trauma feeling is real and valid. Your system is experiencing something it wasn’t prepared for. Be gentle with yourself while you figure out boundaries that work for you.
Your twin wasn’t trying to hurt or upset you. They likely don’t even know they reached out in that way but it’s usually a manifestation of them thinking of you at the time or just their knowing that they’re not currently with the right person.
When twins have been intimate before, those sacral chakra connections stay active. Their physical experiences can bleed through because energetically you’re still “one system” in many ways. Cutting cords doesn’t really work with twins but you can adjust the intensity of the connection.
Age and mileage definitely changed how it feels. At first they would almost knock me over know I’m used to it, they come and go in a couple minutes. My body just knows what to expect now.
Yeah, I’m going through something similar. Different words maybe, but same feeling. I’m still trying to figure out this whole connection thing. Hit me hard a few weeks ago and I wasn’t expecting it. Keep having these weird moments where I feel like we’re experiencing the same things even when we’re not together. Pretty intense stuff.
When you’re feeling overwhelmed by these sensations, try putting both hands on your heart and breathing golden light into that space. I got this technique from an energy healer who works with twin flame connections.
There was a story like this on the old forum where someone was working with it and seemed to be using it to help bring their twin flame closer back to them.
I used to get blunt, in-your-face visions of my TF with someone else. I’d tell myself I was imagining it, then the timing matched. And there was that gut punch afterward.
He once asked if I wanted to join. I said no. Not my thing. What helped me was asking her to lower the signal. I set that boundary out loud and in my head, and it eased up. Picture a volume knob and turn it down. If you need to block parts of it, do. I still catch myself wondering what it would be like to meet his wife, if she’d notice how alike we are.
Same here. Its unsettling. The first time, I thought I was losing my mind-sensations in spots that didnt match my body. Youre not alone. For me it shows up like our energy bleeding into each other, not just a physical thing.
Some days it barely registers; other days it wipes me out. I just ride it out.
Been there. When it first happened, I genuinely thought something was wrong with me, feeling physical sensations that didn’t match my body, emotions that came out of nowhere.
The emotional part was worse than the physical for me.
Feeling them trying to use sex to forget about our connection while simultaneously thinking about me was brutal. Started seeing an energy healer who helped me understand this is part of the purging process - they’re trying to release the connection, but it just amplifies it instead.
Physical manifestation of them literally trying to reach out to you because they’re sleeping with the wrong person. They might even be thinking of you but their mind is not with whoever that fake karmic is.
When I was married I had that feeling altogether three times, till I found out… She simply then left me for that guy. Not even cared for our kids, Anyway, thats years ago. But how come, I now have these exact same feelings since I met my TF? Actually she married about one month after we first met in 2022. That is frightening.
Whenever I’m with someone else, I can feel him. Like his energy crashes into me out of nowhere. I get this pressure in my chest, my heart feels like it’s in a vice. Sometimes I literally can’t breathe or I get dizzy. It doesn’t matter what I’m doing; it could be making out or just flirting.
The second there’s any kind of connection with someone else, boom, there he is. I’ve tried pushing through but the feeling just gets stronger. No idea if he feels this too wherever he is. Kind of fucked up that he can ghost me completely but I still feel him so intensely when I’m trying to move on.
Talked to my twin about this (we’re in separation but still communicate occasionally) and they admitted feeling my experiences too. We agreed to try being mindful when with other people - like mentally warning each other first. Doesn’t always work, but at least we’re both aware it’s happening to each other.
Even though it’s not intentional on their side, your system is right to feel violated. Working with a reiki practitioner who understood twin flames helped me reclaim my energetic sovereignty without severing the connection entirely.
My twin was with someone else in the next room at a party once. The walls were paper thin, and I heard everything. It’s been three years since they blocked me on everything, and that night still sticks with me. My chest hurt so bad it felt like something tore inside-the worst thing I’ve been through.
My twin and I have strong sexual energy between us (he has confirmed the connection) and unfortunately I can also confirm you can feel them have sex with others. It feels like a tingling where male genitalia would be for me. It’s horrific and traumatizing. I had to feel it for about one full year now. For a long time I didn’t know how to lessen the effect. I absolutely suggest you learn to pull your energy back and keep yourself shielded during those times. But its an aggressive energy on their part, and DM’s seem to be stronger in sacral & root chakra energy, so it’s tricky. You can also imagine that energy bypassing you entirely, which helps. The last thing you want is your own energy “leaking” into their intimacy and enhancing their experience without realizing.
I went through something similar with the physical sensations being so intense they actually made me sick. My heart hurt so bad I thought I was having a heart attack.
When I asked about that specific night later, turns out my gut feeling was right. What helped me deal with it was putting some energetic distance between us. I still get waves of anxiety and physical stuff sometimes, but it’s way more manageable now that we’re not as connected. The physical distance helps buffer it, though it doesn’t make it go away completely.
About a year back, I experienced one of those intense physical connections where I felt what my TF was feeling during an intimate moment of his. The sensation was strong, but after that first time, it never happened again.
I figured he must have learned to shield better, or maybe he started timing things for when he sensed I was deep in sleep. Who knows. Reading about your experience reminded me of how intense these connections can get. That sounds really overwhelming to deal with.
Building on the somatic angle, I don’t have all the answers, but here’s what’s been working for me.
Every night I literally say out loud when I’m ‘closed for business’, like no energetic stuff between 10pm and 7am, and definitely not during sex. I picture this mirrored dome thing around my body that sends any sexual energy back to wherever it came from.
Not in a mean way, just like returning to sender. When something does break through (because it happens), I do that butterfly tap thing while humming really low. Helps me focus on my own body instead of whatever’s coming at me.
Been tracking when this happens most and noticed it’s usually around ovulation or new moon, so now I just prep extra those days. If you’re gonna talk to a therapist about it, maybe just call it somatic empathy or intrusive body sensations, you’ll get help without having to explain the whole thing.
not with whoever that fake karmic is.