I've been dreaming of him before ever meeting

[BlackCat22]

So… My mind is a little all over the show and I’m trying to put the words together to make sense.

I’ve been experiencing quite a few different things leading up to and since meeting my TF for the first time, for example: remote touch, being in the background of my mind 24/7, remote scent, hearing his voice audibly during meditation one time, heart palpitations and pain some times, intense pleasure hitting me in different areas, dreams of him, recieving songs during meditation, lots of repeat numbers, seeing orbs and feeling energy shoot up me, seeing through his eyes and feeling him seeing through my eyes(Bad timing too as it was when I was looking at myself naked! Lol), etc, etc.

But this past week I had three dreams that I had years ago(I only met him half a year ago), that repeated to me that I had forgotten about. These dreams were of him, who I thought was a stranger that I was magnetised to at the time. Now I realise I’ve been having dreams of him(seeing his face and all) before ever having physically met him. And one of them showed me some things that is currently going to happen soon, which is my partner going for surgery, and my TF currently wearing a mustache for movember. I remember that dream and thinking, ‘Why would I dream of my partner having surgery for? Thats weird and random. And who is this mustache man?!’

I’m kind of freaking out that he’s appeared in my dreams in the past and that they’re not only repeating to remind me, but also showing me some things that I think are going to happen.

Has anyone had the same thing happen? Dreaming of them before meeting and possibly getting premonitions maybe?

Out of all the things I’ve experienced, this hit me the hardest and freaked me out to the point I tried to drown it out with loud metal music in my headphones while staring at my desk. I think probably because it’s not something I can “Oh it’s probably my imagination or a coincidence” myself out of.

After the repeat dreams, I met him again(he’s one of the newbies at my partners job, where I went), and he stuck around longer this time and talked more, which was really nice. Aaaand then as I sat in the cinema afterwards with my partner, my heart started pounding for ages along with lots of remote touch. And then the days following up to now(3 days) the remote touch has been appearing a LOT throughout the day and night and much more intensely including feeling like I’m being kissed on the lips.

Is this a sign I need to do something or that there’s something I need to know? Is this a good sign or bad sign? Help lol. Usually I feel calm and enjoy the experiences and I also feel calm and positive when we see each other. But the old dreams shook me up for some reason lol.

Sorry for the rant and probably confusing message!

[Cassady]

That is a sign that a lot of people talk about… I checked, and I’m actually pretty surprised we haven’t had a thread about it already.

Twin flames often meet on the astral plane before they ever cross paths physically. Your soul recognizes theirs in that space, even when your waking mind has no context for who they are yet. The veil between 3D and 5D is at its thinnest.

That’s why you dreamed of a “stranger” you felt magnetized to. Your soul already knew.

The dreams repeating now and showing you details that are currently happening (like the mustache and the surgery) suggest your higher self is bringing these memories forward for a reason. Sometimes it’s confirmation, sometimes it’s preparation.

During separation, this is how twin flames communicate, although our waking selves actually only remember a small amount of the dreams we have, so you probably communicate more than you are remembering (a dream journal can help this!)

As for the actual messages, these tend to be a little too specific for me to be able to say exactly what they might mean. Messages at the higher levels can get pretty nuanced. I wouldn’t panic though, it’s very unlikely that dreaming about them is a bad sign. Just your higher selves trying to guide your 3D selves forward.

I get why this one hit you harder than the other experiences. Remote touch, hearing their voice, the heart stuff, those can all be rationalized away if you try hard enough. But dreaming of someone’s face years before meeting them is pretty hard to dismiss and that’s probably exactly why it happened.

The intensity picking up after seeing them again (the heart pounding, increased remote touch) is pretty normal when the connection is activating more fully. Your energies are responding to each other.

[BlackCat22]

Thank you for the well written response! It’s really appreciated and confirming <3 all of my dreams(past and especially new ones) have been either neutral feeling or positive, but mostly positive, so I guess maybe, hopefully, it means good things ahead I guess time will tell. My face and arms are being stroked as I write this lol

[For_Your_Wellness]

None of this is a “bad sign.” If anything, the calm and positive feelings you get when you’re actually around them are a good indicator. The freakout response is just your logical mind trying to process something that doesn’t fit into normal boxes.

The fact that it led you to a community like this rather than a wild tailspin is also a good sign. The seeing through each other’s eyes thing you mentioned (bad timing and all lol) is another form of that telepathic link. It tends to happen more when the connection is strong or when one or both of you are in a relaxed or meditative state.

I would also point out that dreaming of someone alone doesn’t necessarily mean this is a twin flame. There are other situations in which you might dream of someone before meeting, so I don’t know your full experience, but just to say that a dream alone would not confirm it for me.

[Lifes_Heardships]

Sure sounds like a good sign to me, but might not be specifically calling you to an action (other than following your spiritual development journey, of course). Sometimes the dreams and synchronicities are just confirmation that the connection is real and active… more like guideposts than specific instructions.

So… like IKEA instructions.

The repeat numbers you’re seeing, the songs during meditation, the orbs and energy, these are what we usually call synchronicities. They tend to increase when something is shifting in the connection or when you’re becoming more spiritually attuned to it.

What I’d suggest is just staying grounded. Learn about the journey and what the path is about, but don’t let the intensity of it all pull you out of your regular life or make you anxious. The experiences you’re having are a lot to process, especially all at once. The fact that they’re showing up more in your physical space (talking longer, being around more) while the energetic stuff is also ramping up isn’t random. Things tend to move together like that. Just let it unfold and take care of yourself in the process.

[PeacefulHeart]

Yes! I had dreams of my twin for years before we physically met, and what really shook me was realizing I’d been seeing specific numbers in my meditations during that same time period, turns out they were directly connected to him and our meeting.

The fact that your old dreams are resurfacing now sounds like a good sign, especially with everything going on energetically right now.

[moonbeam_soul]

I had dreams of my twin about 5 years before we met in physical reality. It took me months to make the connection and remember those dreams clearly.

I think the reason the dreams freaked you out more than the other stuff is that dreams from years ago can’t be explained by “oh, I’m just thinking about them too much.” Like that’s actual evidence that predates your awareness of them existing. It’s confronting.

[BlackCat22]

Thank you! I’ll work on grounding then, and yes I’ve been ‘stuck’ for a few days being unable to function properly. So I’ll work on that. I love the referral about it being like IKEA haha

[BlackCat22]

Thank you yeah I agree with the dreaming of someone alone doesn’t mean a twin flame, as i also dreamt of another that works at the same job lol, and she is so supportive and lovely in so many ways and I’ve become friends with her. She was in the dream about my partner going in for surgery, and she is the one who’s going to drive us down to the hospital tomorrow(I only have my learners license). I’m 99% sure he is my twin flame though, too many signs and things happening connected to him outside of the dreams and then all the changes in my life as well such as being an athiest that didn’t believe in anything like spirits or an afterlife, to believing in all of that and more I just couldn’t write everything down or it’d be too long of a post lol

[JoyfulJourney]

I get that shock. I had this vivid dream years ago about walking beside someone on this strange beach, and when I met my TF and saw his face in person… I’d been mourning the separation from that ‘dream’ my entire life without even knowing it.

lmaooo the seeing through their eyes while you were naked though Spirit really said “no privacy for you two.” but yeah that’s happened to me too at weird times. It’s like the connection has zero respect for boundaries or timing.

[CosmicHealing]

Precognitive dreams are a bit different from premonitions. Premonitions are usually more of a gut feeling or just knowing something, but what you’re talking about with the surgery and mustache sounds like actual precognitive dreaming, where you see specific details. This can be a separate thing that gets stronger when you’re going through a twin flame connection. The fact that you remembered those specific details probably means your subconscious was filing them away so you’d recognize the situation later. Kind of interesting that you’re remembering this stuff now.

There’s also this good thread on music as a TF sign.

[EtherealGrace]

The songs during the meditation part really caught my attention because that’s been huge for me too.

I kept getting ‘Chasing Cars’ by Snow Patrol and ‘Yellow’ by Coldplay randomly stuck in my head for MONTHS before meeting mine, and the lyrics described our dynamic perfectly. After we connected, I realized these songs had been coming up for a reason.

Have you gone back to those songs you received and looked at the lyrics?

[BlackCat22]

Oh that’s awesome! And it must have been a good feeling once you knew it was a message for you

I did look at the lyrics afterwards, although it took a while finding the songs that came to me. They were encouraging and quickly became songs I loved. The first one was from Ellie Goulding, her song ‘Love Me Like You Do’

It’s certainly an unusual feeling when those experiences just pop into your head haha

[Factors]

I had a similar thing happen - dreamt of my twin when I was 16 after praying to see my person, then didn’t actually meet him until 10 years later. So yeah, those precognitive dreams before meeting are real. Sounds like your connection exists outside normal time and space.

[Divya]

I saw My Twin flame in dreams in Jan 2023 . One night before my English exam . So I was in 11 standard at that time my Final Exams were Going on .I just revise whole English syllabus and went to slept at 11 o’clock then I got to see a Tall boy a lil bit slim who was crying and saying please don’t leave me Divya and I was making him to go away from me despite loving him , then I wake up at that time it was kinda weird for me to see someone in my dreams as I was a school going teen with all the girlie friends around not much interested in boys . In way coming from school I told my bestie about my dream and we just match his appearance to every boy I have known or interacted in my whole life but his appearance doesn’t matches to any of that , then at that moment without realising about anything ,I just said ( dekh lena isse toh mai 12 mai milugi) watch me I will meet him in 12 standard , and after then I just forget about all those stuffs. Fast forward to 12 std, I saw him in my coaching our eyes locked for like a minute at that time I just felt like someone have seen inside my soul .

[moon_phases]

I relate to this! Before meeting mine, I had recurring dreams of a man whose face I couldn’t quite see but I felt this overwhelming sense of love from him. It was hard to explain but I think I still have the drawing somewhere where I tried to sketch it after my dream. Didn’t know about the twin flame journey back then, just knew this was someone important.

[meadow_spirit]

I had something similar happen. I’ve dreamt of specific details about his apartment before ever visiting. Jung documented cases of precognitive dreams in his work on synchronicity, so you’re not alone in this.

[Rodrigo]

Started practicing lucid dreaming about 2 years ago as a hobby. Been using it to explore those pre-meeting dreams more consciously. It could help if you want to revisit your old dreams with more clarity, but I would tread slowly with this because it could confuse things like trying to force signs.

[SoulContractHealing]

You mentioned repeat numbers but I’m curious, are you seeing specific patterns like 222, 444, or 555?

With precognitive dreams, 555 (major change incoming) and 333 (ascended masters guiding) tend to show up a lot right before major revelations or memory retrievals. 444 usually appears when you’re being protected through overwhelming spiritual downloads. The timing of your dreams repeating now, plus certain number sequences, might mean you’re entering a phase where past information needs to be consciously integrated.

[BlackCat22]

I’m seeing all of those but a little more with 555 I think?