I spent all of last year in separation and going through hell and did not really want to repeat that this year. I had been doing a lot of with the blueprint since the beginning of winter and after reading the post on twin flame inner work, I started to wonder if I was actually ready.
He unblocked me a while ago and I did notice but decided not to act on it.
Last night, I finally sent him a message telling him everything. That I’ve been in love with him this whole time. Couldn’t do face-to-face, so… There’s this moment from a couple of years ago that’s been bothering me, where he asked me something that felt loaded, and I just didn’t really answer. Should’ve said it then, but I answered him now. Asked him not to feel pressured to reply, but I was definitely hoping he would, of course.
It took an hour (felt like a looooong hour).
He said he hasn’t forgotten me and still thinks about me. We’re talking again and making plans for Friday
I don’t want to get ahead of myself. Maybe we still have work to do… but this feels good. Wanted to share !
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You didn’t immediately react when he unblocked you - that shows how much your inner work did for you. Most would have panicked and messaged the second we saw that unblock. You chose when you were ready. You acted from a healed place and I know (as well as you do) how hard it is to get there.
Well done!
I know you said you don’t want to get ahead of yourself, but the signs here are positive. Keep doing the inner work you’re doing, even now. Good luck Friday
Friday is soon! Good, you’re still talking now, maybe (and this is just my suggestion) keep it a little light and breezy until then. Don’t need to hit him with the TF stuff all at once in the first five minutes.
Try not to spiral into expectations between now and then (easier said than done, I know). Whatever happens, you put yourself out there from a genuine place and that took courage. So excited to see where this goes for you!
Sent mine a message through snapchat during no contact. My heart was pounding so hard I felt dizzy, hands shaking the whole time I was typing. Still don’t know when he’ll see it since he goes for months without ever checking it and we’re not talking right now. But he always said nothing could scare him away, so I’m holding onto that. My stomach’s been in knots ever since I hit send.
My heart soared reading this. Letting all those feelings out must have been such a release.
Speaking the truth took real courage, and it sounds like things are looking up. You’ve carried so much, and seeing him reach out feels like a little blessing.
Texting first was probably the right call since face-to-face clearly wasn’t happening otherwise. But Friday is going to feel different - it’s easy to be vulnerable over text, and holding that same openness when you’re actually sitting across from each other is harder.
Don’t over-rehearse what you’ll say in person. Mental scripts actually block authentic flow and create a weird pressure.
Your nervous system might do unexpected things when you see him - elevated heart rate, shakiness, even going temporarily blank. That’s normal after prolonged separation. Ground yourself before you go and trust that the connection will guide the conversation naturally.
Would love to hear more of your process on how you got there but happy for you! You’ve already done the hard part by sharing. Just be yourself and see where it goes.
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