Has anyone had mixed signals from their twin flame?
He broke up the relationship and 3 months later we started talking again. He asked for us to meet but is giving out mixed signals, he does think we have enough chemistry to move the relationship forward but still really like me and is worried when we meet the attraction will be there.
I have no idea what he’s getting at. I assume this is a twin flame thing he feels the pull but is fighting against it.
Anyway we meet up in a few days so I’ll keep you updated with what happens
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The best thing is to just ask him what he means by that. You’re in contact, so there’s no need to overthink when you can get the exact information straight from him.
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Textbook runner behavior. He broke up, then came back after 3 months to meet him. Is the pull getting too strong to ignore? He says he likes you but worries the attraction will hit when you meet. He’s admitting it. He knows it’s there and it’s scaring the crap out of him.
Runners feel this intense magnetic draw, like instant recognition that doesn’t make sense. It challenges everything they know about relationships. It’s overwhelming when you don’t have a framework for this kind of thing (most of us don’t).
Classic push-pull with the mixed signals. He’s torn by longing and fear, full of confusion. Not fully gone, not ready to commit. But he initiated the meetup. That’s his soul overriding the fear. Runners deep in it ghost or block. They don’t reach out.
Go in without big expectations, let him feel safe (pressure triggers pullbacks). Keep us posted!
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Pay attention to his body language when you meet. Not just his words. Twins often communicate more through energy and physical presence than through what they actually say out loud (had to learn that one the hard way). His words might still be guarded but his body will tell you everything.
Good luck. This ride is going to get bumpy.
So an update! We met and he gave me a big hug and huge beaming smile and we were getting on fine. He’s working a lot this weekend and I asked if we could meet for a catch up as I had only seen him through work but he said his schedule is jam packed but if I could come down to stay again we’ll meet up next time. We’re getting on really well but it’s surface conversation nothing deep and no romantic connection at all. The twin flame energy is intense. Chest pulls, warmth, tingling, and signs from the universe everywhere but no reunion yet
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This sounds more promising than you might think. He’s making future plans with you, inviting you to come stay and meet up next time. He’s not pulling away it seems like he wants you around but is easing into things at a pace that feels safe for him.
The surface conversation doesn’t worry me too much at this stage. You’ve only just reconnected in person, and if the energy is as intense as you’re describing, he’s probably feeling it too and keeping things light as a way to manage that. Sometimes depth comes when trust rebuilds and the nervous system settles. It doesn’t always happen on our timeline.
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I wish I could say it was positive but I sent a polite message when i got home and since then absolutely nothing! He replied 24 hours later, then I replied and he just left it on read. He’s doing some weird things on Facebook messenger he’s permanently taken his active status off which isn’t like him. I messaged today as I am going back down there next week but no reply. Think my asking for casual meet up has pushed him away again
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I’m going through something rather similar at the moment, though we haven’t met up yet. He asked to, after he’d reached out and told me he loved me, thought about me a lot and that I was his baby but then started breadcrumbing. Cos I’m underconfident and because he’d asked to meet in a public space I texted him and said it felt like time wasn’t right, if he didn’t feel safe to meet me in a private space. Of course now I’m wondering if I messed up lol As there is silence from his end.
So basically yes, I’m going through it too and I’m sure lots of others who frequent this forum are. They are runners. I guess it’s what they do. Until they don’t. Meanwhile we have to deal with it. time to focus on inner work and raising the vibe some more I guess. Sigh.
Good luck with your twin flame journey by the way, feeling for you so much.
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Reading all these posts hits a soft spot for me coz I’m going through the exact same thing. My Twin was hot on my heels two weeks ago, asked to meet as we were in the same country at the time, we met, I explained how I felt about his silence and coming and going, he acknowledged, apologised, said he would try to be better, kissed me, kept his word for 3 days, then vanished. No reason, no explanation, nothing. So here I am again. Just trying to understand how one can go from so hot to so cold in the snap of a finger. Sending love to all of you navigating these similar moments now 
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When my twin went silent like this after we’d reconnected, I was convinced I’d done something wrong too. But during that exact silence I started getting these physical symptoms. Random heart palpitations out of nowhere and this heavy pressure in my solar plexus like someone was sitting on my chest. My left ear would ring at the strangest times, always when I was thinking about him. My doctor literally shrugged.
What I came to realize is that the silence doesn’t always mean disconnection. Sometimes their energy is louder when their words stop. Him turning off his active status and going quiet isn’t necessarily about you asking for a casual meet up. That looks like someone retreating inward because something is happening internally that he doesn’t know how to process. Runners don’t usually go into hiding mode over a simple catch-up request. They go into hiding when the feelings get too real and they need to shut everything down to cope.
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I was visiting friend about 40 miles from where he lived so I suggested at some point during the week we meet up but no still too busy. I contacted him yesterday when I got back from my week away, only light friendly message nothing to tie him down to anything but this time nothing. I felt a shift in the universe yesterday afternoon and have been buzzing ever since and keep getting chest pulls plus weird pain in my right leg. I know it’s all twin flame related so I’m going to let the universe do what it needs to now
That meetup might just be the catalyst his soul needs to start awakening, whether or not anything gets resolved between you two.
My twin’s awakening didn’t even begin until we were face to face again after months apart, and honestly nothing was resolved that day (not even close). Sometimes the reunion itself is the purpose.
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He eventually replied but now it’s been over. A month since his last message and he hasn’t even read my message. I’ve come on so far though since that last meeting. I love him a lot but I’ve realised it’s not doing either of us any good so I’m just carrying on and maybe one day he’ll come back but if he doesn’t I know this awakening was for me and not us both
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