This part is one of those areas people disagree about, and I won’t pretend like I have answers that nobody else has.
I completely understand the urge for twin flame confirmation. One of the best descriptions for the journey for me was being put on a bucking bronco after being blindfolded. Something is going wild, the ground is moving beneath you and you don’t know why.
The problem is, I don’t know if anyone else can tell you if this is your twin or not, and I think at least most of the people more experienced with this journey tend to agree.
Yes, it sounds like your story has many of the hallmarks of a twin flame connection, but I believe that’s something you only figure out from within. You can use tools like the Tarot or charts to help you figure it out, but I don’t believe anyone else can figure it out for you.
That’s not me trying to be unhelpful. I genuinely don’t think anyone else can tell you. I don’t believe in paying psychics who are incentivised to tell you that you are.
All said, I’m not trying to tell you that you’re not on the journey either. I’m just telling you that you need to find answers for this stuff from within (as much for the benefit of anyone else reading this).
As for what you do now, I don’t think I could add anything that hasn’t already been said recently in the my twin flame is married thread. Nuances change, but the advice is always the same because it’s the only way through.