You already have the answer… don’t share .. don’t explain, don’t try to convince … it’s a truth for you to anchor within you and with the divine
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I totally agree. Stick with those of us who do get it. Others in the outside world, and particularly low-vibration evil influences, will only try to sabotage you and the connection. They’re often miserable themselves and don’t see why anyone else should be happy or have anything nice when they can’t. We know our truth and that’s what matters.
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That’s exactly how I think things would go with my mother. And it would make me really upset and angry if she dismissed my experience. Adding the fact that my DM is young enough to be my son it’s probably a good idea to keep it quiet.
The really funny thing is my mother recently mentioned she’d watched something on TV about the possibility of there being different dimensions. She told me she’ll be going to the 5th Dimension. I said you can’t just go you need to ascend lol.
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I learned this the hard way back, when I made the mistake of opening up to a coworker about my TF. Ever since then, I’ve kept this part of my life sacred and only share within spaces like this one. The truth doesn’t need outside validation to be real.
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Was just reading this other thread about awakening. The matrix reference really applies here. I’ve done energy clearings, rituals, all of it. Trying to explain any of it to friends, they look at me like I’m speaking another language. Every single time.
They’re not bad people or anything. Has anyone else noticed that the ones still ‘asleep’ to this spiritual stuff just become harder and harder to actually connect with? We’re operating on completely different frequencies now. Incompatible maybe? It can be pretty isolating.
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It’s usually the same few people who consistently misread me. Not everyone.
Back in the 1800s people trying to explain electricity to skeptics got the exact same blank stares. Maybe that’s just how it goes when you’re describing something most people haven’t experienced firsthand. If someone already respects your perspective before you even open your mouth, that matters a lot. When they don’t, every word you say gets twisted into something you never meant. Every single time. Gets exhausting.
But yeah… it’s always the same ones.
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For what it’s worth - I don’t think your twin can explain this to anyone either.
You’ve probably had the experience. You start to describe the connection to a friend, you get two sentences in, and you watch their face do that polite thing. The slow nod. The careful “mmm.” You can see them filing you under still hung up on someone, and you stop talking, because whatever this is… it doesn’t survive translation.
The first people to work with electricity had the exact same problem.
Imagine trying to explain invisible current to someone in the 1700s.
“There’s a force, you can’t see it… It moves through certain materials and not others, it can jump across a gap, and I can feel it in my hands…”
They got blank stares. Some got laughed out of the room. The force was completely real. The audience just had no framework for it yet. No possible way of beginning to understand because it didn’t fit in with how they understand the universe.
You’re describing current to people who haven’t seen a lightbulb.
And your twin can’t explain this to anyone else, either.
The Conversation They Keep Losing
Somewhere right now, your twin flame is in a room you’re not in, and your name has come up, or something adjacent to your name, a place, a song, a month of the year. And he is doing the exact thing you do. Reaching for words, finding none that fit, and settling for something smaller than the truth.
“We’re just friends.” “It was a while ago.” “It wasn’t anything serious.”
What’s he supposed to say?
There’s a woman who feels like a place I’ve already lived? He’d get the same blank stare you get. So he shrinks you down to a size the room can handle, and everyone moves on, and he sits there knowing the description was wrong.
You’ve been on the speaking end of this problem. He’s on it too. You are both fluent in a language with exactly two native speakers, and you’re each surrounded by people who only speak the common tongue. The silence you keep about him and the silence he keeps about you are the same silence.
People Notice Anyway
Now, the people around him aren’t stupid. They can’t name what they’re seeing, but they can see something.
His friends notice that he goes somewhere else mid-conversation sometimes, a two-second absence behind the eyes, and then he’s back. If he’s with someone else, she feels it most of all. Not as a fact she could point to. As a room in him she’s never been given a key to. She’s not a villain in this, but she’s a comfortable person in a comfortable arrangement… but part of her senses that some portion of him is spoken for.
Even though she couldn’t tell you by whom or why… people can feel a reserved seat even when it’s empty.
Your people notice it in you, too. The friend who says “you light up weirdly when that topic comes up.” The relative who asks careful questions. They’re detecting… something. They feel the current even if they don’t know what it is they’re seeing. They don’t have the instruments to measure it, so they round it down to a crush, or a phase, or something you should be over by now.
So the next time a friend gives you the blank stare, let her. She’s not rejecting the truth, she’s just early-1700s about it, and history is on your side. The people who couldn’t imagine invisible current went on to live in houses wired with it.
And the next time the silence from him stings, remember what the silence is made of. It’s not absence. It’s a man holding a live wire and telling everyone his hands are empty, because the alternative is trying to explain electricity to people who’ve never seen light.
You already know how that conversation goes. You’ve had it. He’s having it.
One day the two of you won’t need to translate anything for anyone, because the only fluent audience either of you will ever need will be sitting across the table. Until then, take the blank stares as confirmation. Ordinary connections are easy to explain.
Yours never was.
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