Well, that makes sense to me.
Our higher selves don’t recognize time passing the same way our 3D minds do. Your connection exists outside normal time, so it would make sense.
The download thing you mentioned, that’s the tf telepathy kicking in stronger during your calls. The trigger can be different for everyone and direct 3D communication seems to work for you. Your mental energies are linking up while you’re talking. There’s something about the Alpha brainwave state we slip into during deep convos that opens up that telepathic channel more. Usually happens when we’re relaxed and our defenses are down. Late-night calls have that quality especially.