I’ve been wanting to write this for a while now, and this is probably the one space where I know people will truly get it on a soul level. You’ll understand what it means to me to have gone through it.
For anyone still in the thick of it… I see you. I was you. And I’m here to tell you that what you’re hoping for isn’t just a fantasy.
I don’t know you or your situation, but if you are really on the twin flame journey, then it is out for you to have.
Take it from me. You don’t need to reach some impossible level of spiritual perfection. I’m not meditating on the top of a mountain top every morning which is what some people would have you believe.
You don’t have to “stop caring” or force yourself to “move on.” You need to find genuine peace with the journey itself. Appreciating the awakening it sparked in me and understanding that this connection is part of something so much more than just romance. It’s transformative work. Divine work.
My focus was all about him, and he’s still the first thought when I wake up and the last when I fall asleep, but I think that is probably where a lot of people get stuck.
A little background of my story: we crossed paths years ago and then… silence. Almost two years of no contact. The separation nearly broke me in ways I couldn’t explain to anyone outside this community. You guys are probably the only ones who would really understand what I felt in those two years.
Friends & family just kept telling me to get over it, and I could never really explain it to them.
But he came back. And not halfway… fully, completely, as the man my soul always recognized him to be.
There were signs of reunion coming, but I don’t think I noticed any of them at the time. Not consciously anyway. Maybe I subconsciously saw them, and I knew on some level, but… 
Looking back, I could see some patterns now, but at the time…
He was just at my door when I came back home one night. No message. No heads up. Just sitting at my doorstep and (in his own words) he was trying to explain why he was there.
Now? We’ve been building a life together for a while and it’s honestly more beautiful than anything I let myself picture during the hard times. There’s an ease between us, a depth of trust I didn’t know was possible. We laugh a lot. We communicate in ways that feel almost effortless now. All those dark nights genuinely led me here.
Keep going. Your path is unfolding exactly as it should. 