Real Twin Flame Reunion Success Stories

[BlackCat22]

Just incase people are confused, my comment above was originally a post that got popped here instead by the moderators I can’t edit it unless it gets flagged.

I’ll add more though:

All the interactions with my TF have been positive so far. I’ve met him 5 times over the span of almost 5 months.

The first time was when I was leaving a group get-together, he was the last one to arrive and forgot to introduce himself to me. That’s when the first eye lock and ‘recognition’ happened after i walked over to go back home, he also looked a bit stunned, but said we should spend some time together and get to know each other(he only knew and worked with my partner for about 2.5 weeks at that stage, so an unusual thing to say to his workmates partner), and then as i left i looked back and he was staring at the table infront of him looking kinda shocked.

The second time was when I arrived at my partners work, he was the first to say hello with a big smile before eveyone else did(I know everyone there well.). And then as he was leaving for work he stood facing me from the exit where i was sitting on their couch, and told me it was really good to see me again.

The third time was when I went there again to go with my partner to my birthday dinner and movie with friends. So I was just hanging out on one of their chairs while my partner was busy doing other things until we could go(was there for about half an hour), and TF was talking to another workmates infront of me and I joined in talking to the workmate. Every time I talked to him, TF would face me and respond/laugh to what I’d say. Then another came over and asked about my birthday, which TF then asked about my birthday and wished me well. When he was leaving, he kept making excuses to carry on the conversation with the guy infront of me, and then he said goodbye to me and wished me a happy birthday again. He hung around about half an hour longer than his usual finish time.

The 4th and 5th time was when I went over to support my partner for his minor surgery I was going over with him for, from work. Tf was the first to say hello again and asked me about how my birthday went, getting a bit tongue tied in the process which I thought was cute haha. I went off with my partner and turns out he didn’t need the surgery after all once he was checked over there, so we walked blocks back to work so he could finish up a bit there before going home again. I was red in the face and feeling really hot, and my hair was probably a mess due to the wind lol but TF came over to me and mentioned how I must have walked quite a distance to get here, and I said(like in the comment I made above) that yeah I’m all hot and red! While fanning my face and kind of laughing, in which he responded with this soft smile and looking me in the eyes the whole time, ‘Nah, you look great.’ Which i think came out without him meaning to, as he turned away, walked off a bit and rubbed the back of his head. So I’m not sure if he felt stupid or embarrassed or not. Again, he hung around and not really doing anything while I was there(but then again maybe he usually hangs around when I’m not), and then as I was leaving I said called goodbye to them all and he perked up and called goodbye.

Now all of these could just be me over thinking or seeing things that aren’t there, but it just feels different, ya know? And the way he looks at me and responds to me is different from how he does to others.

I’m off to a work event today where he’ll likely be, so who knows if today is another interaction or not. Either way, I’ll enjoy myself there

[Greycat]

I just had someone on another forum say never mind, hopefully you’ll find someone else. Started crying again. After my marriage ended I decided I was done with trying to find someone. I’m nearly 50 and seriously done with all the online bullshit. And dating has never worked out for me. I don’t know if it’s some vibe I give off but I very rarely get approached. It’s not as if I’m unattractive or anything that’s just the way it is. Other people date like they eat, frequently. That’s never been my experience. If it doesn’t happen with him I’ll just stay single. Too cynical and no other man could ever match up anyway.

I don’t need someone telling me I’ll find someone else when my heart’s just been ripped in two. I thought I was doing ok but last night I was struggling to breathe from the heartache.

Anyway as I lay there in bed in tears I felt my back getting gently stroked and then heard whispering over and over I love you, I love you, I love you. Which was greatly comforting.

It’s our work Christmas party soon. I’m not really feeling in the mood and I’m not expecting him to be there. It would be worse though if he was there and ignored me. I guess time will tell.

[Cassady]

@Greycat

I just had someone on another forum say never mind, hopefully you’ll find someone else.

The two other communities I’m aware of have a real problem with gatekeeping mentality. A lot of people are quite unhappy, and social media becomes a place for them to vent that unhappiness.

I have seen some of that negativity spill into this community, but it gets deleted quickly.

But speaking of keeping things tidy, let’s keep this on the topic of success stories

[For_Your_Wellness]

I think @Cassady is absolutely correct. Most people who go past union tend to remove themselves from these communities because their priorities change, and the more negative and toxic they become, the harder it is to stick around them.

I have noticed the beginnings of the twin flame collective trying to push back against this a bit but it only works because the community here is small. Once the “horde” finds us we’ll be overrun by the same negativity the others face.

Every once in a while, I feel called to come back here and make a post or two. I’m trying to be more consistent with it. It’s worth it when I know something I say might help someone go through what I went through.

@Dasbopster

This is probably a lot of rambling but I can’t talk about her in a way that anyone else could begin to understand.

This is the other problem.

I think it is so hard to really explain in a way that is actually useful or makes sense. It’s not like a movie; it’s different but also so much better.

My own journey went through several countries.

We actually lived very close to each other during our childhood, but never met; we might have even walked by each other, it was a pretty small place. In our mid-twenties, through a rather strange series of events, we both got stranded on a remote island because of a forest fire.

It wasn’t a desert island or anything; we were in a city with an Airbnb, but it was a small population and the chances of us both being there…

There wasn’t a good way to meet other English speakers there, but we both went on our phones, and (this is why I’ll never be against TFs using dating apps), we met on Tinder, of all things.

We didn’t go for a “date”; we just agreed that if we were both stuck there for a while, it would be nice to spend time with another English speaker.

Things… escalated.

I felt like I got a glimpse of what life could really feel like. Everything else shrunk into background noise. Every small problem faded to insignificance because… what could possibly be bad when I had a love like this?

We tried to avoid using the L word but it didn’t last long.

Then the fire cleared and we both got separated. Visa issues escalated the situation and we were both forced to go our own ways before we really even had a chance to talk about it.

During the next… longer than I care to admit, we both alternated the running/chasing dynamic. Trying to rationalize this chance encounter and whirlwind romance as just for that place and time and telling ourselves it would never have lasted.

Then, I guess Spirit just decided to get involved. In a city of over 10 million people, it put us back in the same place a little after Christmas. We had kept in touch, but hadn’t told the other of our travel plans until I saw a photo of him in a nearby hotspot. Couldn’t believe it.

We’ve been together ever since. It wasn’t just that we had this time apart and happened to bump into each other. It put us both through a lot and a lot to process without really understanding why or what we were really doing.

I think the best way I could describe it is that the first meeting changed us in a way that staying who we used to be was a crazy idea. It became so clear that we had to make changes, we had to heal and improve things. We were kind of dragged along by that idea until we met again and we still feel the same pull to improve but now we do it together.

[Greycat]

I know what you mean and have experienced that myself but I think this was just a guy trying to be nice and helpful but it made me sad because it was so soon after.

Anyway I would love to hear some reunion/union stories! I guess it is like regular relationships like my friend who is very happy in her marriage doesn’t need to brag about it on FB but there may be people venting a lot who are struggling. Be nice to get some balance on the TF journey because I’m seeing so many stories about people giving up or disliking their TF.

[Mystique]

I’ve been wanting to write this for a while now, and this is probably the one space where I know people will truly get it on a soul level. You’ll understand what it means to me to have gone through it.

For anyone still in the thick of it… I see you. I was you. And I’m here to tell you that what you’re hoping for isn’t just a fantasy.

I don’t know you or your situation, but if you are really on the twin flame journey, then it is out for you to have.

Take it from me. You don’t need to reach some impossible level of spiritual perfection. I’m not meditating on the top of a mountain top every morning which is what some people would have you believe.

You don’t have to “stop caring” or force yourself to “move on.” You need to find genuine peace with the journey itself. Appreciating the awakening it sparked in me and understanding that this connection is part of something so much more than just romance. It’s transformative work. Divine work.

My focus was all about him, and he’s still the first thought when I wake up and the last when I fall asleep, but I think that is probably where a lot of people get stuck.

A little background of my story: we crossed paths years ago and then… silence. Almost two years of no contact. The separation nearly broke me in ways I couldn’t explain to anyone outside this community. You guys are probably the only ones who would really understand what I felt in those two years.

Friends & family just kept telling me to get over it, and I could never really explain it to them.

But he came back. And not halfway… fully, completely, as the man my soul always recognized him to be.

There were signs of reunion coming, but I don’t think I noticed any of them at the time. Not consciously anyway. Maybe I subconsciously saw them, and I knew on some level, but… Looking back, I could see some patterns now, but at the time…

He was just at my door when I came back home one night. No message. No heads up. Just sitting at my doorstep and (in his own words) he was trying to explain why he was there.

Now? We’ve been building a life together for a while and it’s honestly more beautiful than anything I let myself picture during the hard times. There’s an ease between us, a depth of trust I didn’t know was possible. We laugh a lot. We communicate in ways that feel almost effortless now. All those dark nights genuinely led me here.

Keep going. Your path is unfolding exactly as it should.

[Yaneka_Herma]

Why I can pictured this ‘he was just at my door one night’, because this situation crossed my mind often. Honestly, I’m afraid of that thought, because almost a year and a half silent, I don’t really know where he is at. I’m afraid that I got carried away by that emotion, while he actually build his own life, maybe with a partner, maybe already commited to someone else. But, I’m always happy when reading this success stories, it renewed our faith.

[MrsClaus]

I’m marrying my twin flame in a few months. Sometimes I still can’t believe this is my life. I don’t often share details of my life, but since we are, I can share a few details of mine.

Our love story has been unfolding for about fifteen years now. That’s a long time since I’ve seen people post about knowing their twin for a few weeks.

We started as two kids who lit up whenever we saw each other at university. Both too young and scared to act on it. Then came the long silence, living completely separate lives, thinking maybe that chapter was closed forever.

I always kind of had them on my mind. There was a night I was smoking with a few friends, and we got onto the topic of “the one that got away. My mind immediately went to him.

But Spirit had other ideas. During those years apart, we somehow ended up at the same company for a short-term contract. Neither of us knew the other was there until we literally ran into each other in the hallway on the last day. We exchanged numbers, but the timing still wasn’t right.

We were both seeing other people, and I don’t know how much I believe platonic twin flames would work. If I were being honest with myself, I knew I would always be wondering if we could be more. So, we drifted apart again.

Then, a couple of years later, we were seated at the same table at a mutual friend’s wedding. A friend we didn’t even realize we had in common.

For privacy reasons, I’ll skip some of the details of us getting back together and the subsequent two separations we went through, but (after a lot of work on both sides) we finally stopped fighting the pull and reconnected properly a few years ago, and everything just clicked into place.

I hate that cliche, but it is just too accurate.

More than a decade of soul growth and all these “coincidences” led us right here. Now we’re planning our wedding and building something beautiful together. I’ve never felt more at peace or more certain of anything.

The best bit of advice I could give others is to trust the journey, even when it makes no sense.

[Dasbopster]

This is sounding like a success story so thought I’d share it here for anyone looking for inspiration in other separation experiences:

Last Night I I Told My Twin Flame I Love Him

I spent all of last year in separation and going through hell and did not really want to repeat that this year. I had been doing a lot of with the blueprint since the beginning of winter and after reading the post on twin flame inner work, I started to wonder if I was actually ready. He unblocked me a while ago and I did notice but decided not to act on it. Last night, I finally sent him a message telling him everything. That I’ve been in love with him this whole time. Couldn’t do face-to-face…