You’ll get people telling you to go scorched earth, delete their number, block on social media, but this is not how you really surrender. Then you’ll get others saying text whenever you want because you’re twin flames, what’s the worst that can happen? Both extremes can get in the way and tend to lack an understanding of whyyou go through separation.
Normal dating advice doesn’t really apply (but that won’t stop people from trying to use it) - comparing twin flames to a normal relationship is like comparing a toothpick to a redwood tree.
But that doesn’t mean all dating advice is useless either.
Even when you’re not texting, you’re in constant communication through your unspoken bond. Telepathically. It never stops. So sometimes the urge you feel to reach out is actually them pulling at you energetically in the 4D/5D, even when they’re quiet in the 3D.
If you do decide to text, keep it short and positive. Don’t bring up past stuff or whose fault the separation was. Something casual like ‘hey haven’t heard from you in a while, hope you’re doing good’ type thing. Don’t send a bunch at once - that can overwhelm them. The biggest risk is that if you reach out before both of you are ready, you could trigger their soul shock more and set things back.
Giving them space lets them miss you, process their emotions, heal.
And if you haven’t been doing your inner work, then texting them isn’t going to make a blind bit of difference either way.