I was beginning to wonder if I was fooling myself. We split over the new year and I discovered this forum. I knew it was a genuine twin flame connection but thought we weren’t meant to be together in this lifetime. We made no connection in the last 3 months. I did the work and realised what that actually meant. I moved on and suddenly over the last week the synchronicities picked up. Then today we talked it happened! It’s not union but we are speaking
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So glad you’re talking! Keep doing you. No rush for union shows you’ve truly healed.
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I think you probably know this but I wouldn’t feel right if I didn’t say anything.
I’m really glad you’re in contact again, but just keep doing whatever got you this far. It is working for you. Don’t let your energy of (understanble) excitement backfire on you now. Keep it level, keep doing your work and let it unfold.
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What remains after you let go is usually what was meant to stay. The most powerful thing you can do sometimes is just say it, share how you feel without expecting anything back. Not even a response, not even an acknowledgment. That’s harder than it sounds.
When you release attachment to outcomes there’s this weird peace that settles in. Not immediately. But it comes.
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Yes! Thank you for sharing. Excited to see where it goes for you.
I could feel myself falling into that trap. I suddenly got so excited and felt I was becoming the anxious chaser I was before. So I’ve taken a step back especially as it’s only friendly chat nothing romantic so I don’t think he’s there yet
So an update he can’t wait to meet up he still really likes me and has been desperate to get back in contact…but…he doesn’t want a relationship!!! So he hasn’t done the work and union is not on the cards. He just wants a casual fling so I’m back to square one. I suppose we are talking now
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I would reframe that a little to “you both have some work to do”.
Yes, it’s frustrating he’s not on the same page yet. But think about where you were a few weeks ago: zero contact, nothing. Now he’s reaching out and saying he likes you. That’s progress, even if it’s not exactly how you want it right now.
The old you might have settled for casual just to keep him close. You’re honoring yourself by wanting more than that. That’s the work paying off. Standing firm in what you deserve might trigger his healing journey. Don’t go backwards for him. Let him rise up to meet you.
In the meantime, you keep doing the work too. He’ll catch up.
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You already know it’s not full union yet, but you’re celebrating the speaking stage anyway. That’s emotional maturity.
So many people in this community rush to label everything as either union or failure. There’s a whole middle ground of just reconnecting and rediscovering each other. It doesn’t get talked about enough. It deserves its own celebration, maybe even more than the big milestones.
Really happy for you.
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Yes the difference from the time separated to now is immense. I would have done anything to spend time with him 3 months ago. I’ve done so much work and when I spoke to him yesterday I was clear that we can be friends but I’m not accepting breadcrumbs with no anxiety or fear and he has reached out so maybe we are on the right track
Keep your energy calm. It’s everything right now. His sign tells you a lot about how to pace this reconnection. Freaking out or being all over them just pushes the energy backward. It undoes the progress without you even realizing it. The universe brought you back into contact for a reason. Let things unfold naturally.
Can I ask something? In the week before they reached out, were you seeing their name pop up in random places?
That’s been happening to me nonstop lately, on receipts and license plates, even a random email from someone with his exact name at work. I used to brush it off. But then I started tracking it in my notes app, and the frequency is kind of undeniable once you see it laid out.
Yes definitely! I would be watching tv and characters with their name or the director would be the same name. My biggest sign was the night before I went into my kitchen and every clock said 22:22. They are not even in sync with each other only the Alexa would have been correct as the other appliances I manually enter the time. I just knew when I saw that something was going to happen and 12 hours later we were talking again
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Incredible synch! The universe has a way of using the mundane things around us to deliver messages when we’re finally still enough to notice them. Trust that awareness because it clearly led you right back to where you needed to be.