This kind of thing also gets misunderstood a lot, not every surge means your twin is reaching out.
Sometimes it’s just your own energy system going haywire. Could be kundalini acting up, hormonal stuff during certain times of day, or even those solar flares people talk about affecting the connection.
Not saying this is happening here, just be aware that we shouldn’t be looking for this kind of sign.
Totally agree with what you describe. I’ve been engaging in a telepathic intimacy for about 3 years with my TF. It started as a bit random and superficial sessions following our real world interactions, and with time it turned into a profound spiritual and healing experience which we practice in a ritualistic way. I can confirm this type of joint sexual meditation is incredibly healing, and it heals through triggering as well. This is especially true for the deepest childhood traumas, like abandonment, rejection, feeling unworthy and unloved. We both come from the highly abusive families, and been through long term abusive relationships in the past. So there is tons of stuff to heal 
That ache that isn’t quite pain - is your heart chakra responding to the distance? When twins merge energetically across separation, the heart often feels it most intensely because it’s trying to bridge the physical gap. It’s like your energy body is stretching across space to reach them.
The problem is our physical bodies aren’t designed for this kind of long-distance energetic connection. The chest ‘pain’ is your heart chakra working overtime to maintain that bridge. Some days when the connection flows easily, there’s no strain. Other days when there’s resistance or blocks, your system works harder and you feel that pressure.
Same thing happened to me. I thought something was wrong with me too. Usually, I have a pretty high sex drive, but during our separation, it just disappeared completely. Like someone turned off a switch. I spent weeks worrying that maybe I’d never feel attracted to anyone again.
Then, when we got back together, everything came back right away. Really glad to hear this happens to other people.
Yes, those who’ve experienced this understand that the physical connection between twins goes beyond regular intimacy. It feels like something bigger is happening. I don’t bring this up at most spiritual meetups because people either get it or they don’t.
When that energy starts flowing between you and your twin, it’s overwhelming. The masculine and feminine parts coming together create something I’ve never felt before. I know it sounds out there, but the energy is real.
You can feel it moving through different levels of awareness. Being in a physical body does make it harder to fully experience everything. But twins who’ve done their inner work seem to handle the intensity better. Each couple can only take what they’re ready for. Once you’ve been with your twin like that, other connections feel flat. My partner felt it too, said nothing else comes close.
I’m in surrender stage now. The arousal waves used to drive me crazy during early separation, but after three years I’ve gotten used to them. I notice patterns, morning ones usually happen when they’re thinking about me. Evening waves seem to come when they’re dealing with heavy stuff.
Same here. My sexuality used to be a huge part of who I was, but since we split it’s just. gone. Every time ‘Cosmic Love’ by Florence + The Machine plays, I remember how intense everything was between us. I can’t imagine feeling that way with someone else.
I tried dating someone new. When they touched me, I physically pulled away. It felt wrong, like I was betraying something. Even simple songs like ‘I Found’ by Amber Run remind me how connected we were.
Regular physical contact feels empty now. ‘Two’ by Sleeping At Last says it best (we really were like one soul in two bodies. I’m trying to figure out my sexuality on my own again. Some days I think that part of me won’t come back unless we’re together again.
The hardest part to admit is that when I deal with those arousal waves, my body responds the same way it does after we’re actually together (which is nothing like I’ve ever felt with anyone else).
Happened strongest for me right before they came back into contact. Like the energy was building up to critical mass, two weeks of intense nightly arousal, dreams, seeing their name everywhere, then boom - random text after 8 months of silence.
Anyone else notice it gets stronger during full moons or certain portals?
11:11, 2:22, all the mirror numbers seem to amplify it. Or when they’re going through something emotional on their end. Like their emotional energy translates to sexual energy when it reaches me. Maybe that’s just how the connection manifests in the physical body, idk.
They might not consciously register it as sexual energy, but that pull was there.
A couple of days ago I completely lost myself feeling my twin while a friend was at my home. I forgot him. I was just feeling my twin. Temperature rising. I had to kick them out of the house!
How do I know if the sudden feeling (Usually at night) is him thinking of me or actually him having sex with someone else?
Is that the kind of feeling that he just pops up in your mind anytime, anywhere? When you can feel his touch from a distance like it was realllll? Like you two are telepathically reaching each other?
The energy feels so wild and so hot. Feels ancient. Primordial. It was spontaneous and frequency-driven. Nothing of the flesh. Only breath and soul resonance. Pain and desire alchemizing through shadows. Passion arising like magma. Akashic travels towards sovereignty. Inner union of the masculine and feminine consciousness.