Honey, the chaser ‘giving up’ happens more often than people admit. It’s pretty normal and sometimes it’s exactly what needs to happen for things to actually move forward.
Runners are usually not spiritually aware enough to understand what they’re feeling. The intensity scares them because it reflects everything they’ve been avoiding: their wounds… their fears about being worthy of love. They might go from one empty relationship to another, staying in their ‘comfort zone’ while you’re here doing all the inner work.
A soulmate relationship isn’t a betrayal of your twin flame connection.
Soulmates can help you heal in ways that prepare you for union later. They’re calmer, more stable. Some twins need that experience first. The lessons you learn from a soulmate can raise the vibration of the eventual TF union.
But I’ll be real with you. Sometimes, both twins walk away, and the union just doesn’t happen in this lifetime. That’s painful, but it’s possible. So I wouldn’t move on just because you think it is some kind of twin flame stage that you need to go through. Move on if it serves you and your journey.
Whatever you decide, make sure it’s genuine and for yourself, not as some strategy to get their attention.