The universe really doesn’t care about our 3D obligations. Not even a little. Here I am feeling their energy daily like some kind of emotional anchor (very dignified, I know), and meanwhile I’ve got my own marriage situation that still needs figuring out. I don’t think it matters if you’re involved with someone else, in the scheme of things. I don’t think the whole celibacy thing matters, but I’d rather not get anyone else hurt along the way, so I don’t think we should be actively marrying just to ‘hold space’ or for something to do.
Maybe the sacrifice itself is the actual test in 3D, with reunion being more of a 5D thing. Practically speaking, this whole situation feels impossible, and maybe it’s supposed to.