Guilty as charged. I got really into Tarot and told myself that I was somehow doing my healing work. I think it can certainly help, but I was just nibbling around the edges and not really committing to doing anything with real meat.
I was doing the easy bits. Funnily enough, I was also in a separation for years doing that. 
If you spent the year in separation, then this is the advice you need. It’s advice I wish I had back then. You’re not waiting for DNOTS to trigger it or waiting for your twin to change.
I know people post stuff like “you can’t do anything just wait for the timing to be right” but I can practically promise you that it’ll be a long wait for a bus that isn’t coming.
