If twin flames could unite easily, the entire purpose would be defeated and twin flames would not be what they are. If you don’t want to go through the work, you might want to look for a soulmate instead. The lesson of wholeness wouldn’t be learned. Neither person would become whole independently. The difficulty can’t be separated from the purpose because the difficulty IS the purpose.
Every conflict point becomes a healing opportunity. Arguments reveal communication patterns needing work. Jealousy reveals self-worth issues. Fear of abandonment reveals childhood wounds. Control issues reveal ego attachments. The relationship systematically exposes everywhere your consciousness isn’t aligned with love, and that exposure feels like torture to the ego. There’s also the paradox that reunion approaches when you stop trying to make it happen. The relationship works when you no longer need it. Your twin comes back when you genuinely let go. Union manifests when you’re complete within yourself. The very act of waiting patiently while holding them in your heart and trying to connect on other levels actually prevents union because that desperate wanting creates vibrational resistance.
The spiritual framework maintains that twin flames incarnate with missions beyond their personal relationship. They’re here to anchor divine love into physical reality and serve planetary consciousness evolution. The difficulty is proportional to the mission.