Thisssss. So much this.
The twin flame community can be sooooo quick to push forgiveness as the ‘enlightened’ thing to do, but you know what? Sometimes anger is the healthiest response you can have. It means you actually recognize that your boundaries mattered in the first place.
I spent monthssss trying to force myself into forgiveness because I thought that’s what would bring union faster. Spoiler: it didn’t work. All it did was make me suppress my actual feelings and pretend I was ‘healed’ when I was really just numb. Big difference. Trying to force yourself is just bypassing and ignoring the inner work that you are supposed to do.
Things got better when I finally let myself be mad. Like, properly furious. And once I stopped judging myself for feeling that way, the anger actually moved through me instead of staying stuck. You don’t owe anyone (even your twin) forgiveness on their timeline. Especially not if they haven’t even acknowledged what they did or shown any real change. Honor where you’re at right now, because that’s the only way through.
My experience anyway.