Sometimes I just feel so drained and done with the twin flame journey.
I’m not saying I want to give up, but it does make me question - has anyone else given up on their twin flame union or considered/tried to give up?
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I’m not sure what you mean by giving up. But yeah, I guess I’ve kind of given up on my twin. We’re no longer in contact and haven’t seen each other in a year. He’s in a long-term relationship with someone else. He seems happy and completely unaffected by this whole journey.
So that’s it. I’ve surrendered and accepted things as they are. I still want him but I’m not going to do anything about it. I’m just trying to live my life the best I can.
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Considered, yes. It feels brutal sometimes. However I know the connection will always be there no matter what I do. I can choose not to be around them but I will always think about them and feel that we are part of each other no matter what. For what it’s worth, they will too. Even if they are with someone else, look happy on the outside, they don’t forget us. Twin flame love is unconditional and cannot be erased, no matter what goes on in 3D.
I want to give up right this minute. I won’t though. don’t you either.
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Yes, I’ve tried so many times to give up. I’m tired. I don’t want to meditate anymore or be in my Divine Feminine energy. I just want to relax into a normal relationship. I want to be be held & kissed, to have a man help me & do something nice for me, to be told I’m pretty. I can’t embody my divine essence when I’m deprived of human interaction. The funny thing is (and I say this humbly) that I’m a beautiful woman and have my fair share of male suitors but for some reason, I’m blocked from new romance. Each one I attempted to begin blew up in my face before it even started. Again, I’m tired and just want to give up.
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I cannot count the number of times I’ve wanted to give up. Honestly, my situation seems impossible by so many definitions. There will always be those moments when you feel so defeated that you wonder, “What is the point of all this?” And believe me, at one point, I tried everything to move on. Despite my numerous attempts, my heart still always leads me back to him. He is home.
I read a quote the other day that I hope will resonate with you, “Magic happens when you do not give up, even though you want to. The universe always falls in love with a stubborn heart.” 
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I dated someone for a bit. It helped in every way except intimately. Defenitely helped me feel desirable again. My twin left with my self esteem, but I took it back.
This is such an important reminder 
I think the hardest part is trusting that they feel it too, especially when we can’t see any evidence in the 3D. Some days it feels like we’re carrying this connection alone, you know? But you’re right - the bond doesn’t just disappear.
I’ve had moments where I wanted to completely walk away, I think we all have at least once. But something always pulls me back 
This isn’t something you can just quit. Look at everyone who has tried something like cord-cutting; it doesn’t work. There is no denying this path.
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I’ve never considered giving up on my TF relationship in itself, but I absolutely came close to giving up on life as part of this journey. That was my DNOTS moment for sure… I still trusted and believed that there was a future for me and my twin, but I reached a point where I simply didn’t have the energy or wherewithal to keep pushing forward. I was spiritually, mentally, and emotionally exhausted. I was just done climbing a mountain, believing I was close to the top, and then getting there and instead finding another mountain in front of me. I felt abused by the Universe; I felt like my spiritual connection was gone; I felt like I couldn’t trust a damned thing I was receiving. So I came very close to quitting entirely.
It was the bleakest moment of my life, and believe me when I tell you that’s saying something.
But from that point of almost giving up on everything (which would obviously have meant giving up on my TF journey as well) I reached my true surrender point. I don’t think I would have got there without it. Choosing surrender over quitting changed my energy around the entire situation, and my spiritual connection came back with powerful force and opened up entirely new avenues. I started discovering other people and connections that I know have deep meaning on this path. I started my true inner work and can feel the deep shifts that are resulting from it. My bleakest moment was possibly the most important moment of my life.
It’s totally understandable why people consider giving up on this journey. It is so hard. So. Hard. But the rewards of sticking with it are unlike anything else you’ll ever encounter. I am not yet in full union with my twin, but those rewards are already proving themselves in my life, and despite the pain and difficulties, I wouldn’t swap this path for anything.
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I don’t know what’s happened to me over night. I know how close my union is. I got a reading yesterday confirming it. He still isn’t quite there though. 
I am so sick of this. If one more person does the head tilt when they ask about him I am going to explode. If I hear one more word about the work he still needs to do I am going to run screaming into the sunset. I just see this cowardly man. An actual grown up man who ran like a pussy. It’s just a huge turn-off when I think about it now. If there is a new version of him he is hiding that away just like all his other feelings so it does me no good. I will never settle for anything less than I deserve. My twin is just unrequited love to me now. I don’t wait for that. I don’t want that. I am ready to start living my new life and im going to live it with whoever shows up for me and right now it’s not that man. Is there some hate your twin moon thing happening? I’m not venting. I actually feel this way. It’s mind numbing to me that I could come this far and be done two seconds before touch down but that is exactly where I am now.
I have given up on it happening in this life pretty much cant see it working out too much chaos and we arent ready but it is eternal and eventually we will be together but its looking like it will be in the afterlife not this life.
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I’m still wondering what it means to give up on this journey. Is it even possible to give up?
You can surrender and let go, but that’s different. Actually, that’s exactly what you should do. Focus on you and live your life. If he really is your twin, he will come back sooner or later. If not, then it’s simply not meant to be.
And that ladies and gents is true surrender. This is what everyone should be striving for.
Been there so many times before my union. My guess is that most people who make it went through those thoughts at least once.
Separation sickness. It shows up as lethargy, low energy, and even physical pain when your counterpart isn’t around. The emotional turmoil shows up physically too, that’s not in your head. Wanting to quit doesn’t mean you’re failing or weak. The constant pursuit is energetically draining. The effort to reconnect can cause actual exhaustion. You’re dealing with high highs and low lows while also processing your twin’s emotions alongside your own.
Take a break from trying to force things if you feel like you need to. This isn’t a race. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with questioning whether you can keep going. It’s part of it, unfortunately.
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Oh, it’s nice to hear that I’ve done something right, even though I don’t really think there’s right or wrong on this journey.
It hasn’t been easy to get to this point. Not at all. Some days I still wake up crying, feeling desperate, but the feelings pass quickly. They don’t ruin the whole day like they used to.
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That’s exactly what you should be aiming for. That’s you choosing yourself. That’s what it looks like when you stop handing your peace over to someone else’s timeline. You waking up and letting those feelings move through you without letting them hijack your entire day — that IS the work.
That’s exactly it. You can walk away, but the connection stays. It just does.
Divine timing doesn’t care about our decisions to ‘quit.’ And sometimes surrender just means accepting this thing is bigger than our choice to engage with it or not.