My twin flame and I are apart he was the runner and I am now moving on letting fate take its course. But one thing I realised when I first connected with my TF my career started to go downhill. My job suddenly became more stressful and things have become bad. I have been putting off taking a long leave of absence but have now been pushed into this and feel I am being pushed away from this career path into something else. My TF also lost out on a job just before we split and wondered if we are both supposed to be changing career paths. Has anyone else experienced a career/job change during your TF journey?l
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I mean… I experienced an entire massive life change: virtually every single aspect of my life changed drastically after my TF awakening (I moved my entire life halfway around the globe, got rid of most of my belongings, and completely changed my focus, purpose, everything). Career was part of that, for sure; I think these types of changes are pretty common aspects of this journey. I hadn’t accepted that this was a twin flame situation until after these changes manifested (and I can link them directly to my relationship with my twin even though they’re also independent of him), so realising afterwards that massive life changes are a key feature of these journeys only helped confirm that this is indeed what we are to each other.
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The collective did a poll, and this was one of the questions. I don’t think it was always a career change but about 70% of people said there was a major life change involved in their journey:
We both ended up losing our jobs and going into full-blown separation, which pushed us onto completely different paths.
I experienced this. When I first met my twin, I was unemployed (for good reason, as I was recovering from a surgery) while trying to work on a creative endeavor. I remain unemployed for a while even after I was well enough to work, and one day, during our most recent separation, being unemployed started to bother me. I ended up in an industry I wanted to be in for a long time (outside of being a creative). After our first separation, the original way I was approaching being a creative suddenly stopped working and forced me to re-examine parts of that to rebrand and I went back to school. On her end, I noticed that she, too, changed careers and started going back to school. We both had major changes.
When I first met my TF, my whole career basically fell apart within months. I was doing okay in corporate marketing and then suddenly everything started going wrong - toxic environment, impossible targets, just complete chaos. At first, I thought it was bad luck, or I was doing something wrong.
I think this is a big part of the awakening process for a lot of us.
The TF experience shakes up every aspect of your life, including your work. When you awaken, you might want to make a career shift because this person inspires you so much that every aspect of your life feels… right. Your job is usually one of those areas.
I ended up leaving that role and I’m now doing something completely different. It’s more aligned with who I am, not just what I thought I should be doing.
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Follow your heart, make a plan, and just go for it - be okay with stumbling along the way.
My entire career just felt hollow and meaningless. Took me almost six years to finally walk away from it all. All I know is I’m done playing small and I’d rather fall flat on my face than wonder what could have been.
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I don’t have a “career” per se but have worked for the same company for years, same one my TF works for now. I’ve been feeling quite meh about my job for a while and that ramped up just before I first met him. Just bored and unfulfilled although it’s easy and there’s various perks. Not sure what else I could do though I don’t have a degree or anything unfortunately and probably too old for that kind of thing now.
Hoping this will go through as I have a number of posts that are pending for some days now… maybe the Universe is trying to tell me I’m spending too long on here and need to do some actual work… 
Your energetic frequency literally changes when you connect with your twin. Jobs and environments that used to be tolerable suddenly become unbearable because you’re vibrating at a different level.
Your raised consciousness is rejecting what no longer matches your new frequency.
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Both of us made major pivots actually - him from nursing toward a PhD in astrobiology, me jumping from business into pre-med. Something about the connection just seems to shake up whatever path you thought you were on. I’d say trust where it’s pulling you career-wise.
Career change? Hard, but not impossible.
To anyone reading this, please don’t get scared or discouraged by this prospect!
I can’t speak for others. But at this point for me, it’s about as frequent as getting a haircut. 
In my life’s journey so far I have: (in chronological order)
• sailed on various ships and barges on 2 oceans and lakes as an engineering officer;
• been in charge of pumping millions of liters of hydrocarbons on and off said barges;
• was employed as an assistant maintenance superintendent for fuel barges;
• worked as a shipyard mechanic;
• became a school facility caretaker;
• an industrial facility caretaker; (where I first met my twin)
• a specialized plumber;
• a custom heavy equipment technician;
All at so many different organizations and workplaces that I’ve lost count.
And now I’m searching for a new job because I’m no longer satisfied with the direction my current work enviroment is taking.
Please don’t think I’m saying all this to brag. The reality is that I’ve gone through good times and I’ve gone through some very hard times. Some places I’d be welcomed back if I wanted to return, others I was tossed out like trash.
Heck in the workplace where I first met my twin I was removed so forcebly that the means by which that occured…were very much illegal. 
That being said, if there’s one thing I’ve learned so far, is what to look for (and perhaps even demand) in a workplace to achieve a balance between my family and my career.
Because in the end, a job does not define you or your potential! 
It should be seen as a means to an end, not your entire existence.
This really connects. Can I ask - did you notice the career problems starting before you consciously recognized them as your twin, or only after the full recognition hit?
In my previous relationships (karmic ones, as I now understand them), my career actually thrived because I poured all my energy into work to avoid the emptiness I felt with those partners. I mistook that avoidance for ambition. Now I think about it, that might be a good sign of false twin flames to look for.
With my TF it’s been the complete opposite. My soul suddenly refuses to let me use work as a hiding place and is demanding I align with my true purpose instead of just “staying busy” for the sake of it.
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I met the guy whilst on holiday and my first day back at work everything went downhill since then it’s got so bad I am currently on sick leave which I never do. We are now separated so I am seriously considering changing my job
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