I get what you’re describing. For me, the heart pull feels like he’s woven into my nervous system. I’m aware of his energy constantly, almost like we’re tethered together even when we’re apart.
The physical sensations you’re describing - that logical brain fighting the body’s reaction - all real. I get it. The heart pull often comes with actual physical symptoms in the heart chakra area, not just emotional feelings. There’s a whole thread about the physical side of this:
Sometimes your body reacts before your mind can make sense of it. The disconnect is disorienting.
The heart pull for me feels like this full-body energetic sensation, almost like tingles or waves moving through me. It gets so intense that I have trouble focusing on regular stuff because all I want is to be around them or in their energy.
Yeah, I know what you mean. The pull feels different because you can literally feel it in your body, especially your chest area.
Other people usually notice before you do. I’ve had friends comment on the intensity between us without me saying anything about what I was going through.
That ‘one minute I’m fine, the next I’m not’ thing happens with this. A crush is more predictable. This just interrupts your day randomly - you’ll be doing something completely unrelated and suddenly feel like you need to reach out or wonder what they’re doing. Not from anxiety, just this weird sense that something’s shifted.
Your logical mind fighting it is pretty common. This doesn’t work on logic, which is why it feels so confusing. The physical sensation in your chest is probably more reliable than whatever your brain is trying to figure out.
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For me, right before the pull intensifies or before I unexpectedly hear from him, I get this weird zen feeling in the morning.
Like my guides are preparing me or something. That’s usually when I know something’s about to shift between us.