So my coach asked me the other day what’s actually changed in me since meeting my person, and I kind of blanked. Like, I know things are different, but putting it into words is hard.
Been at this for a while now, and yeah, a lot of old patterns are gone. Stuff I used to believe about myself, about relationships, just. not there anymore. It’s weird to think about. I had to meditate on it for a while to even see some of these changes in myself.
Anyway, what’s shifted for you guys? Or what you’re still stuck on. Both, I guess. This connection has a way of showing you everything, whether you want to see it or not lol.
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I think it taught me what unconditional love really means.
People use it because they’ve heard it in movies, but they don’t really mean it. They use it the same way they use “soulmate” when they don’t really understand what that is either.
I’ve learned what the ego really means, too.
I’ve learned to take responsibility for my journey and other parts of my life. To start looking at problems as opportunities for me to grow, overcome and improve. Rather than blaming situations, circumstances and other people.
Every time I’m suffering over this connection, it’s because I’ve slipped back into expectations or possessiveness. And the second, I catch myself and surrender back to just loving him without needing anything from it? Peace. Instant. It’s like a feedback loop showing me exactly where I’m still holding on too tight. Uncomfortable to see, but also kind of clarifying.
What I’ve learned so far is finding my two feet planted on the ground and my own voice; I’ve found that I don’t have to be perfect at something, it’s ok to laugh at myself and make mistakes; I have learnt to love myself and look highly to myself, to see myself as powerful in my own right; I have learnt that my fears are in my hands and I can let them go or hold them if I want, but that my fears do not hold me and control me now; I have started pursuing my passions and desires, mostly writing and artwork; and that my connection to my tf is eternal, their current relationship or even future ones don’t change that