The love I feel for my twin is unlike anything I’ve ever experienced - it’s not just butterflies, it’s like my entire soul is on fire whenever I think about them. Every cell in my body recognizes them, and when we’re together, the rest of the world literally disappears. Is this what everyone means when they talk about true love?
I’ve been in love before, at least I thought I had been, but this is something else entirely. Even when we’re apart, I feel them constantly… not just thinking about them, but actually feeling their energy.
Is this constant state of being madly in love just part of the twin flame journey? Those of you further along in your journey… does this feeling ever stabilize, or is it always this consuming like this?
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Maybe it doesn’t always look that way early on (like in separation), but I can speak for my twin and the other TFs I know who have been in union for longer…
Yes. Always.
I thought I knew what love was before, but this just blew my mind. I know couples who have been together 20+ years and still act like they’re kids together.
I think most people in normal relationships are still looking for this kind of love. The kind of love this idea of “true love” was based on. The kind of love that truly nothing else matters because I always have her.
Absolutely.
She’s the first thing I think of when I wake up in the morning and the last thing I look at when I fall asleep.
The intensity does shift over time, but not in the way you might expect. For me, after about two years, it transformed from that consuming, almost desperate need into something deeper. Still powerful, but less… frantic. Like the difference between a wildfire and a steady flame that keeps you warm.
The constant feeling of their energy is real - you’re picking up on the connection that exists beyond the physical. Some days it’ll be stronger, some days quieter, depending on what’s happening with both of you energetically.
Just remember, this intensity can trigger a lot of old wounds to surface, too. If things suddenly get rocky or overwhelming, that’s often what’s happening - not the love disappearing, but the clearing process kicking in.
Years since first meeting. The first two years were exactly what you’re describing - a total soul-on-fire situation. Then came the runner/chaser phase, which was complete hell (I know most of us can relate, so you’re not alone with the consuming thing). Then surrender. Then the reunion was different from what was expected.
Now, the love is bone-deep and permanent, but also just… part of me. like trying to describe water to a fish. We don’t even need to be physically together to feel complete anymore. Union happened on a soul level, and everything else is just details
That feeling is so real, and something so many people describe when they first meet their twin. It’s an activation, an awakening. That fire you’re feeling is the whole point, in the beginning. It’s what fuels you for what comes next (and you’re going to need that fuel!)
The connection isn’t meant to stay in that honeymoon phase forever, though. It evolves and twin flames evolve more than most people. The purpose is to reveal aspects of yourself, and that process can be challenging and bring up a lot of things to the surface. It’s not always comfortable, but that intensity changes and deepens.
The short answer, though, is yes. Twin flames are always in love.
In my experience, it’ll never be like a “normal” crush or relationship. It’s always something bigger, always something more supportive and something pushing you (in a good way) to grow and be better.
It doesn’t keep being the focus of your entire day, though. Usually that’s something you just need to work through… it’s a bit hard to explain. It’ll never seem “normal”.
I really relate to what you’re describing. Still feel them constantly, but it’s background now, like breathing. You learn to function with it. It’s almost like you can’t really function without it.
Your souls are finding each other again. That doesn’t go away like a generic crush does. Yes, you’re always in love. Love doesn’t even explain it properly.
Yes, we’re still madly in love. When we first met, something in me just knew. Like I’d been asleep my whole life and suddenly woke up.
We’ve been through a lot together - dealt with each other’s baggage, worked through our issues. Sometimes it was rough. But that connection we felt from the start is still there, stronger than ever.
Being with them makes me want to be a better person. Not for them, but for me. They inspire me to grow and heal in ways I never thought possible. It’s like their presence just activates my own potential. That’s what real love is.
I know exactly what you mean about that soul-deep recognition. It’s different from regular love in a way that’s hard to explain to anyone who hasn’t felt it. From what I’ve experienced, the feelings go both ways. Your twin feels that same pull, even when it doesn’t look like it. You’re two halves of the same energy, so the connection works in both directions.
I’m actually with someone else right now (a karmic partner), and while I care about them, it’s nothing compared to what I feel for my twin. The difference is huge. The waiting is hard. Some days the feelings are overwhelming, other days they’re just this warm feeling in your chest. But the connection itself never goes away.
Even though I’m in another relationship and giving my twin space, I know we’ll end up together eventually. The pull is too strong on both sides.
What you’re feeling is real and it’s mutual. That consuming feeling is part of how you know it’s your twin.
When you’re feeling that overwhelming, all-consuming love that makes your soul feel on fire, channeling that energy can help deepen your connection. When it gets too much, I write letters to my twin. Not to send necessarily, just to get it all out.
If you believe in the 5D connection (and honestly, how can we not when we feel them so strongly even when apart?), these written words become a form of communication that goes beyond physical distance. When I pour my heart out in these letters, my twin often shows up in my dreams afterward, like they’re responding to what I wrote.
Creating this outlet might help you process the intensity while still honoring the connection. The feelings are still there, burning just as bright, but now they have somewhere to flow.
The couples I’ve met who are actually in authentic twin flame unions, like my friend’s parents who’ve been together 40 years and still look at each other like teenagers, have this steady, deep love that’s beyond the initial fireworks.
What you’re describing sounds like the real deal. True twin flame love evolves from that consuming fire into something even more powerful - a calm knowing that fills every cell without burning you alive. The intensity does stabilize, but it transforms into something richer rather than diminishing.
Unlike those karmic connections that burn hot and flame out.
Oh yes, the ‘madly in love’ part is definitely there, along with the madly frustrated, madly confused, and madly working on yourself parts that nobody mentions in the romantic posts.
I think if anyone ever questions a feeling of love for their TF then it isn’t the real thing. The intensity does stabilize eventually, but only after you’ve done enough inner work to realize that being ‘madly’ anything isn’t sustainable. What remains is a deep, steady love that doesn’t need the drama. You’ll know it’s real twin flame love when you can feel completely connected to them while also being perfectly fine without them in your daily life.
The consuming nature of it - yeah, I know that feeling. Just last night I had another vivid dream where my twin and I were having a conversation without words, just understanding flowing between us. When I woke up, that fire you mentioned was burning even brighter.
From my experience, the intensity shifts through different phases, but it never really goes away.
It’ll change and grow as the two of you do but it is always love at the core.
Accepting this connection as something unique rather than trying to make it fit into conventional relationship boxes helps. When you stop fighting against how overwhelming it feels and just acknowledge that this is special and real, something shifts. Your twin will feel that acceptance too, even if they’re not consciously aware of it yet.