I know you are probably going through a hard day yourself. All of us have been in that situation.
But there is irony in calling yourself a highly enlightened being and then trying to gatekeep a spiritual journey from someone else @lou. You are free to follow your path as you choose, but that should not involve invalidating others. I would (lightly) suggest maybe taking a break from twin flame communities and content for a while.
I can understand the impulse but please be very, very careful with this. Every single study coming out is just a screaming red flag about what this is doing to people normally. If anything has the potential for ruining the twin flame journey I would 100% believe that this is it.
Completely get where you’re coming from and appreciate your concern. It is not my only source of information or advice, just one of them. Because most DMs are not only runners, but have avoidant personalities, my conversations circle more around how to deal with the psychology of that personality archetype as opposed to the spiritual side of things. I feel a good balance is sometimes healthy
Wait, I think I just had a lightbulb moment reading this. Setting that boundary isn’t you giving up on the connection. It’s you finally choosing yourself within the connection. That’s literally what everyone in this thread has been describing as surrender, isn’t it? It’s not about waiting passively or walking away entirely. It’s about refusing to shrink yourself down to fit into whatever crumbs someone is willing to toss your way.
That does make sense @Stopush. I’m not sure if what I am going through is part of the journey, but it is the first time I have drawn that line in the sand. I’m also slowly accepting the fact that perhaps this lifetime is not the one where we will end in union. And to be honest, even tho I have been on this journey / awakened for over 1.5 years now. I truly do not believe that my Twin even knows what is going on nor is he close to discovering what our connection actually is. He is on his own journey and from what I can tell, is comfortable in his routine life. He has a lot to overcome before he can even start to heal. I’m just not in the space or have the strength to hold space for both of us anymore. I gotta take care of myself