I found out my twin flame is getting married in two weeks. To someone they’ve been with for less than a year.
I found out through mutual friends, and I think part of me died. We had this intense connection. All the things you’d expect to see on the journey that threw us both. The recognition, the synchronicities, everything people talk about here. People commented on how we were both made for each other. Then they ran. Hard. Blocked me everywhere, moved cities, the whole thing.
Now this. A wedding. To someone they barely know.
The thing that’s messing with my head is that I can still FEEL them. Like, energetically. Sometimes I wake up at 3 am and I know they’re thinking about me. I see their name everywhere. 11:11 haunts me. But they’re literally about to promise their life to someone else.
Has anyone been through this? When your twin gets married to someone else? Part of me wants to believe this is just another layer of running, that they’re trying to create the ultimate barrier between us. But maybe I’m just delusional. Maybe they were never my twin and I’ve been holding onto nothing.
How do you move forward when they choose a whole life without you?
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I know I won’t be the only one to say this but I’ms orry for the pain you’re going through.
Watching them commit to someone else while you still feel that soul-deep connection is excruciating.
What you’re experiencing… these don’t just vanish because they chose someone else. Your connection exists beyond simple human choices in the 3D. Many twins marry others out of pure fear.
The intensity of the twin flame bond can feel so threatening to someone’s sense of control that they’ll literally build an entire life to avoid it. You’ll see runners do some… intense and life changing things just to try and have things make sense again.
Marriage to another person doesn’t erase what you are to each other on a soul level. I’ve seen twins reconnect after decades, divorces, entire lifetimes built separately. Not saying wait around - absolutely not.
But understand that their choice might be the ultimate attempt to feel “safe” from the vulnerability your connection demands.
Focus on your own healing. Clear the energy between you. Live your life fully. Sometimes twins need to experience what life feels like without their other half before they can face the truth of the connection.
My twin got engaged after four months of knowing someone and it wrecked me. The 3 am wake-ups, feeling their energy while they’re planning a wedding with someone else. Yeah, it hurts like hell. For me, the running seemed more like an energy thing than them consciously choosing against me. It might sound like BS when you’re hurting, though.
I’m not gonna lie and say it doesn’t hurt when they’re marrying someone else. But focusing on your own growth instead of the rejection does help create some space to breathe.
My twin got married before me and I thought if I got married too, it would make things even. It didn’t work like that. During close moments with my spouse, sometimes I feel my twin’s presence instead, that unmistakable feeling, and I have to pretend nothing’s happening.
You can create a whole life with another person but some connections don’t fade. The runner experiences that too.
I didn’t run, I just needed to take a break for a year because it was getting too much. I had to focus on myself for a while. When I felt ready and noticed my twin was struggling, I reconnected. By then, I’d worked on myself enough that things had changed a lot. Now, our telepathic connection is a positive part of our lives. It balances us and doesn’t feel overwhelming anymore. You can call it whatever, but I think it’s wise to manage things this way.
Watching them with someone else sucks, but that’s not even the hardest part. What kills me is that I’m here in this hole they left, and somehow I still love them. Still hoping they’re happy while I’m struggling just to breathe.
Mine married their karmic 6 years ago. We reconnected last year. The marriage was already falling apart - they said they never stopped thinking about me. The wedding ring couldn’t block our connection
I ended up marrying someone else because it felt like the safer choice. Marriage gave me a sense of order and stability. Being with my twin felt like I was losing my grip on understanding. Sometimes we go for partners who let us stay comfortable because waking up feels too intense.
Seen this happen with several people. They meet their twin, freak out, then marry someone else to try and move on. Some of those marriages work out… okay (I mean compared to your twin flame what really counts), but you can tell they still feel that connection to the other person. It doesn’t just go away.
Three years with my karmic and my TF is still married. Living with the guilt of being half-present in a relationship is hard. I give my partner maybe 70% on good days. The rest of me is just… elsewhere. Permanently reserved for someone I don’t have right now.
The worst part is they know. We all do. They’ve never said it out loud but I catch them looking at me sometimes. There’s this sadness in their eyes, like they’re mourning the full version of me they’ll never get. I don’t know how much longer we can keep pretending this is enough.
This happened to me. Hardest thing? Accepting it was their fear, not lack of love. They literally told me years later they married someone ‘safe’ because I 'saw too much of them
Maybe when we feel the urge to convince them or prove a connection, it’s more about our own need to control how things develop, instead of letting them unfold on their own.
Currently going through divorce from my karmic. Met my twin after I married. The universe has its own timeline. Their marriage might be exactly what needs to happen for your highest good.
Currently going through divorce from my karmic. Met my twin after I married. The universe has its own timeline. Their marriage might be exactly what needs to happen for your highest good.
What if the DF is getting married and soon after has to figure out that they just met the DM? Of course the DM IS NOT the husband. Mirroring doesn’t end. Blushes all over the place. And that unmistakable feeling sometimes brings me on my knees. Does that mean, they are feeling it too?Seriously? Even in the beginning of their pregnancy… It was all so obvious. First long separation ended three weeks ago due to child birth. We are both working at an elementary school, summer holidays are over in two weeks. We always know when separation ends. Although I don’t really know, whether they really know about TF. Although they started it all…
I did a cord-cutting ritual and worked on my sacral chakra. Been trying to accept that if it’s real twin flame love, I should be happy for them even if they’re with someone else. The jealousy has been fading, which is good… I guess.
Their marriage hit me hard at first. But maybe they need to go through that relationship to work through their own stuff before we can reconnect. I’ve been doing energy clearings every day just to stay centered and give them space to figure things out.
Honestly, getting married after less than a year seems risky to me. You barely know the person at that point. I’ve been talking to my therapist about relationship patterns and apparently rushing into things can be a red flag.
I mean, who knows, but statistically, that marriage is not going to last.
Plus, they’ve got the pull of your connection on top of that.
Have you tried looking into whether it might be a false twin? My false twin got hitched super fast as well. When I think back, the signs were there. Or they’re a karmic being sent to your twin to help move things along.
Our synchronicities seemed forced, and I was always on edge instead of feeling calm around them. That runner/chaser situation was more toxic than anything. Real twins have a unique soul connection that’s hard to miss.
I found some peace by understanding that their fiancé isn’t the bad guy in this situation. They might be on their own unique path, and maybe this marriage serves a purpose we can’t see right now.
If they’re a karmic sent to help your twin learn something that doesn’t mean they’re evil or doing something wrong. Just remember that.
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