Are there signs of healing in your twin flame? Signs that they are doing this work too?
I know you’re not supposed to care, but I was just thinking that if there were syncs that reminded you they were moving in the right direction, it would make it easier.
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With any threads on external signs, I would start with this:
Signs are incredibly unique and you might see some, all or none of these. Don’t drive yourself crazy looking for signs just because others see them.
When your twin starts doing real inner work, you’ll often feel it as… unexpected calm. If anything at all, really. This is different from signs they are thinking of you because these obsessive thoughts quiet down when they’re actually doing the work.
That constant anxiety about “when” starts fading without you forcing it.
It’s why sometimes synchronicities calming down can actually be a good thing. You could also see:
If they’re the runner type, you might notice them posting more reflective things on social media, or showing interest in spiritual topics they never cared about before. Sometimes they start reaching out more, or actually want to talk about real stuff instead of surface-level.
But that mirror works both ways.
When you heal, they feel it too (even if they can’t name it). So the best thing you can do for both of you is keep focusing on your own work. The signs will come just don’t sit around looking for them (unless you want to be here next year doing the same thing).
And I appreciate you linking to my inner work thread 
One big sign is if they start showing more empathy in general, not just towards you but towards everyone around them. They might start expressing more self-love, spending more time in nature, or showing a new interest in spiritual content like posting quotes or following personal growth pages. I had other people comment on changes they saw in my twin when they did their own work.
With healing, energetic alignment happens before you see physical world changes. So things might be shifting for them internally before you notice anything in 3D. Some people report that their own intrusive thoughts about their twin start to decrease as their twin heals. Since you’re mirrors, your own inner peace can reflect theirs.
Syncs are definitely part of this. Spirit uses signs to confirm that both of you are moving in the right direction - repeating numbers, their name appearing in random places and dreams where you both feel connected.
When a twin starts awakening/healing, they often develop more tolerance and patience with life in general. That means in and outside of the twin flame journey. Divine masculines, especially, begin enjoying solitude more and feel drawn to spiritual practices or meditation. They might reach out more and have greater emotional openness than before.
Sometimes you’ll notice a change in their priorities… usually more balanced and not just focused in one area of their life.
Dreams and synchronicities do act as meeting grounds between twins especially during separation. Vivid dreams that feel emotional or prophetic can be signs that healing is happening on both ends. Repeated number patterns like 222 or 333 often show up when the connection is progressing spiritually but number signs can get specific to your journey so just keep your eye out for messages like this in general.
You might notice your own feelings shift. When your twin is healing, sometimes you feel overwhelming emotion out of nowhere, or you start sensing their presence energetically again after a period where they felt distant.
The unawakened twin does (eventually) wake up and a lot of the signs they’re doing the work might be the same signs of reunion coming.
Runner awakening often looks like heightened intuition on their part, an energy shift you can feel, more vivid communication through dreams. They might receive messages through music or numbers that speak to them. Things in their life start falling into place with less effort.
Synchronicities during separation are purposeful signals meant to guide you both. Repeating numbers, meaningful songs, recurring themes. But the signs work best as support for your path, not as the center of your entire focus. Try not to get too caught up in the compulsive checking of any of these signs.
The feminine energy twin usually awakens first, while the masculine awakens later.
The emotional intensity is the sign itself. When the ups and downs start evening out - both in yourself and in how you perceive them - that’s the healing happening.
Dreams. Pay attention to your dreams… at any stage really.
Mine went from these intense, dramatic scenarios where we were always fighting or chasing each other to just… hanging out? Talking calmly? I woke up one morning and we’d had this whole conversation in the dream and I remembered every word. Found out later they’d started therapy around that same time.
I’ve found the growth shows up in practical ways too, like being able to have a thought about them without it derailing your whole day.
The divine masculine and feminine energies within you will tell you everything you need to know about their healing (just like it will your own healing). When your own inner masculine feels grounded and your feminine feels at peace - that constant joy in solitude, that gratitude for the experience instead of tears asking ‘why me again’ - you’re sensing the collective healing happening.
Has anyone else noticed this? That the signs of their twin’s healing show up as shifts in your own energy first?
For me it’s been watching the mirror behaviors shift - like when they stop running from the exact conversations that used to send them into avoidance mode. It’s all a mirror though, so sometimes I wonder if I’m just seeing my own progress reflected back.
In theory, it would look like the same as your own healing being done. So if you see signs of your own improvement, then your TF has probably mirrored that same improvement themselves (maybe in a different area of their own life).
The telepathic downloads I get feel clearer and/or more focused on healing or improvement in general.
The moon phases seem to track with these healing shifts, so I would pay attention there. Full moons especially bring those synchronicities that show your twin is doing the work too.
When I finally surrendered and stopped letting my ego drive the pain, new moons felt like reset points, full moons brought clarity about where he was in his journey.
Both of you will be less triggered by stuff and more patient with 3D stuff in general. You start getting why other people act the way they do (including your DM).
When you stop people pleasing and can finally set boundaries without that fear of rejection, that’s when you know that their healing is happening. That includes setting boundaries with the runner. I noticed my heart chakra started activating intensely and I stopped seeking validation from others.
It might be a kundalini awakening for some of us as well.
Dreams. When they show up in your dreams acting softer or more open than they are in 3D, that’s usually healing happening on their end.
One thing I noticed with my twin is their choices started changing before the obvious spiritual signs showed up. Different music, different friend group, less gossip, more time alone by choice. Sometimes the quiet lifestyle upgrades are a stronger sign of healing than any angel number or dream sync.
