Hello there. That is a really good question and I fear one too few if the participants in the discussions here wanna deal with. But this doesn’t make it disappear or lighten the burden in any way, shape, or form. Or at least, I think so. So, what if s/he is in another relationship and being married, possibly with children? The straightest answer you will find here would be something along the lines…well, your love is true and it doesn’t vanish just because your other half is in relationship, you should distance yourself from them, do you own inner work, even go into relationships yourself, and, my favorite, love will always find a way so just be patient and do your part of the mission. And while I do think all of these advises help, I do really want (in the bottom of my heart) to just cry to the sky and erase this cord connecting us when I know my twin Flame is married to someone else and they are relatively happy in their lives. And the thing is, I believe, I’m not alone in this desire, am I? So, what do you do when your Twin Flame is married or simply in other relationship?
First, I advise you to stay calm. I know you blood is possibly boiling and you can’t find your place in the world but just staying calm in this eventuality is possibly the best thing for you to do. Keep a cool head and try to ensure your reason dominates your behavior rather than your feelings.
Second, find about the true cause for their relationship. Yeah, that is the hardest part right there but if you are truly spiritually aware enough to reach out to your Twin Flame through telepathy or any other Soul binding means you should be able to “unearth” this information. That part where they themselves will show why they have preferred this partner for this lifetime and what is really missing in you to begin with. And this is the part you actually need the most, although it will probably hurt like hell. If you manage to figure out why your own Twin Flame has chosen someone different than you you would have the knowledge of what to change inside yourself to get him/her back. At least, that is how it should work in theory. Of course, the reality may be that you simply can’t change anything in this lifetime-you lack awareness, socioeconomical status, right body feature or anything that your Twin has discovered in the person they are with and you would lose them no matter what you do or will do. In such a case the best advice I have for you is to simply try and lock away that connection as much as possible, set up new goals in your life and work it out somehow from there on. I know it’s difficult but there isn’t an easy path for you either. But just knowing what you don’t have enough to reach union may be that extra push you will need to somehow order your live around it.
Third, if, and only if, you have that strength in you to actually face your demons and rebuilt yourself from scratch, I would advice you to act on what you have learned in the previous paragraph and just start pushing through with that knowledge to remake yourself into the man/woman your Twin Flame desperately desires. I know that is the most difficult thing to ask anyone about and that you have a pretty good chance of failing/falling overboard with it, but I would argue that is the only option you actually have if you want to keep any chance of reuniting with your Twin Flame without causing a massive locomotion. (You will no doubt cause some locomotion as there is a relationship standing on your way, but the more aware you are what you actually had to do to reach union with your Twin Flame and more of the “job” to correct yourself you have actually done the less that locomotion will be.) It’s the most heavy duty path of them all, but it’s also your true chance and path to union. So, what I would recommend in the end is to keep your cools up, go through hell to understand what actually went wrong between you two to begin with, and act on that information to remake yourself in order to fix it. It is kind of inner work that you will have to do, although that is what the spiritual teachers would most likely NOT recommend you to do since it does involves quite a lot of attachment as well as getting into other person’s businesses, but in the end, if you truly love him/her, that is what it will take for you to make it work. Yes, I believe you do have the strength to break through the chains of destiny but only if you are willing to put it ALL on the line and remake yourself to the fullest. And with that strike on HOPE amongst it all I will end this already pretty long response. Take it or leave it, but I do think what was meant to last beyond time cannot be replaced by what was woven by the material matrix trapping our consciousnesses in this physical form! So, choose your actions wisely.